Spirits Trying To Talk To Me And I Need Advice

I have for some reason throughout my life since a young boy have attracted spirits and for the last year it has recently picked up a lot. My grandfather passed almost a year ago and suddenly there is something waking me up every night. Weather it was moving thing snapping fingers loudly or foot steps. Then I talked with him in a dream when I was very upset one night and I never seen or heard from him again. Very shortly after though a lot of different things started happening. Most of the time when I am by myself but my daughter and wife have both had many experiences also but just me and my daughter actually see them. One mourning after taking my daughter to school I was on the couch drinking coffee and out the corner of my eye see a woman, I turned my head and focused in on her, stood up and stepped closer to see that she was see through and just standing in the hallway starring into the bedroom. She appears randomly to me, others have seen her but she runs from them. Shortly after that a little boy appeared in my hallway just looking at me. A couple days later he was back just leaning on the door way looking at me. Occasionally poking me, running around just playing around knocking drinks over and playing with lights and my daughters toys. A few days later on my way to my group and the boy followed me there and later I met a guy and his wife in a kind of counseling group I go to every week and they were starting to talk about their children and got choked up and afterwards someone told me their little boy died not long ago and it made since because the boy was trying to talk to me. Afterwards I never seen the boy again. There has been several other things civil war soldiers, men, women, but they all look normal (except for being see through). But I guess about three days ago I lay down to go to sleep and I see this little blond haired girl maybe two or three standing next to the bed looking at me but she looked different. She looked dead. It kind of freaked me out cause usually they look just fine. Anyway she has been really shaking things up with my wife. She loves playing around during the day but at night she comes up to me sad trying to talk and I don't know how to communicate with her. I have always welcomed any experiences but its has gotten where its all the time I am seeing things in and outside of my home I mean even animals, every now and then I have someone that stays right beside me trying desperately trying to talk to me but I can't hear. So please help with any advice available. Thank you so much for your time and advice.