Dealing With Dreams Coming True

I've had several major dreams that have come true over the past so many years. The first one was when I was in my early 20's and working in a hair salon. The night before going to work I had this horrible dream that my car was torched and vandalized, I woke up and thought wow that was so real. Got ready for work and head out. Got to my job and pulled in to a parking spot on a side street but saw that there was an even better parking spot on the other street. Something just told me to stay where I was so I did. While working we smelt burning I was like "someone's house is on fire". Well when I went to my car I was shocked to see that in the spot I was thinking of parking in was a torched and vandalized car all taped off. Around the same time I had a Dream that my dad would have 2 sons two years after the second son he would get divorced from his third wife and five years after that he would die. Sad to say it has all come true. While working for an postal outlet I worked with this lady and she was nice. One night when closing up, her friend stopped by to drive her home and they offered me a ride to my car. I tell you I have never felt so scared in my life the guy gave me a really bad feeling. The next day I just had to ask her how well she knew him? She said he's great I've known him for over 2 years. I dropped it what else could I say without looking crazy. One day she didn't show up for work so I asked the boss, she said she was in the hospital that "friend" tried to kill her. Just want to learn more about dreams that come true and how I can better understand them. Maybe I can actually help someone.