Foreseeing Things With No Control

I have talked about how I have had insights of knowledge in a day-dream daze of the means of death on many occasions within 2 months of the event with random people (e.g. My brother, my sister's BF, a colleague) who were in close proximity to me at the time.

I have talked about how I have had insights of knowledge that doesn't make all that much sense about a book or video game or television commercial years before I have encounter it in any form.

Recently, I was discussing an employment application of a person for an advertised vacancy and I had the knowledge that he would withdraw from his application for the position (I have no idea why he would withdraw and still don't). I asked him if he was going to withdraw now, well my exact words were: "Oh you're withdrawing your application now?" and he responded "No." and seemed troubled - I was troubled about "knowing he was going to" yet being told otherwise. So I wasn't entirely convinced I was being precognitive; however, within that month what does he do? He withdraws his application.

I reflected back on our previous discussion and I had been in a day-dream daze when I had asked the question. I tend to blurt out questions or make statements with no thought to them in this state before I snap out of it, I am conscious and aware in a hazy way of what I'm doing, but it's like you're in deep thought.

There has to be a way to control this skill? Meditation can't be the only answer. How do others control such abilities?