I Know Things Before They Happen

i am 16 and have always had these things happen has anyone ever looked into medium? That's usually what "we" are called.

exactly like me.
Okay so school started and they kept me in a class where I know no one at all. I wanted to change my class but they wouldn't let me, I'm from a private school btw.
That same day whenever I say school to my self I just smile I'm not controlling the smile it just came to me and I started crying happy tears... The next day they changed my class.

And if something bad will happen I get a scared feeling and i'll uncotrollably shake so I just start calling names in my heart like will it happen to this person or not... When I reach a certain name my heart will just start pounding and the same day something will happen...

I have dreams, too. I just dream things, and they happen. This is been happening since I was four, and I'm 13 now. It can be really scary, but I think I got this "gift" for a reason. Who knows, maybe some day Ill help save a life with this. Maybe you will, too.:)

Okay Uglywanda, I hear you & more than empathize with you. I'm going away for a few days, perhaps I will e-mail you. Your story could have been printed on its own, do not shy away from that. What you have to say is more than valid in it's own right. I'm sending you love wrapped in light. Ursala

I've had dreams and visions since I was little as well as dark shadows, figures. I'm 46 years old now. I've had many bad dreams about family and strangers that have come true. I've been quite afraid all these years and even now still as I just started research on my problem; not sure what to call it, but some call it a gift. The empathy I can relate to, because I'm a caring person. I work in nursing. Yet, I'm devastated. A dream happened in Nov 2006 about a car accident. My son James died Jan 2007 in a severe car wreck, he was only 22. Two days later he came to me in a vision as I lay crying. The others that I dreamt about, they all died too. I been a mess, even worse now, and so afraid. I know how you feel, and I'm here too for some help and answers. Your not crazy, even though I know it feels like that's how we'd end up, but I've made it this far all these years. You've got to be strong and gain some control, and I'd like to find out how as well. I feel all the intense sudden pain and loss, and I feel like I'm going out of my mind now. I want my son back. Why didn't I do something to stop it? I knew something would happen, but not to whom, and I never thought it would happen to one of my sons. Some of my family is afraid of me, and others that are aware of my so called gift. Having them as witnesses to the dreams from telling them, and later it all happened. So, I know I'm not crazy, but all this could make me crazy. I'm not far from it, and that's why I'm here. I was somewhat frozen when I read your words, and the others, are so similiar and yet different in some ways. I've become used to the shadows, I call them, well I do get spooked still, but they don't terrify me anymore. I think they are the dead whom we aren't supposed to see, but some of us can, and I'm one of them. I hear voices too sometimes, and it is not my imagination. Your not alone, but yet we are alone? I've always wondered that there must be others like me, and I didn't know until I came to this site, not for sure. I've been too afraid to seek and find, and afraid that if I did it would get worse. I've only found a way I don't know how, but I can push the visions away and out of focus before I actualy see them. If I want to I can. I don't know what to do either. But, You've got to take every last ounce inside of you to stay in control. I think I'm going to try that meditation myself. I'd like to know also ways to learn to control the dreams or be able to stop them from happening. I've done a little reading on lucid dreaming and there is a lot of information, but afraid to toy with any of it, because I've experienced that as well. All these years I've suffered such depression and weakness, but yet I know I'm strong in other ways. Why this happens to us I don't know. I wish it would stop or like you say, "be better". I don't have those answers for you, and I'm sorry. The past two years have flowed past me in great sorrow for my son as if time does stand still. I feel and harbor so much regret and guilt. For all of them. Why after so many incidents did I not do something to prevent it, even a phone call. I've become like a zombie half the time with severe insomnia because I'm afraid to sleep. I won't share this info with any doctor, never have, never will, but they've kept me on antidepressants for 20 years of my life. I don't trust them I just take my pills, and would like to do without them. I just want to keep writing here because its the first time I'm making contact with others who are like me, so I know I'm not alone. But, now what? I don't know, I haven't read much more than this page since the previous night. I know that ending my life isn't the answer to preventing anymore incidents even though I've thought about it. I have my two younger sons who I can't live without. They've been so angry at me and blame me. They know. I know it seems absurd to some, but I've thought, tried, since I've had dreams the past two years to not mention them at all and it hasn't happened since. But, its gone that long before. I have the dreams and visions, and my shadow friends hang around quite a lot lately. I'm quite disturbed, and feel like I'll go crazy too sometimes. We can't do that. My heart and mind is with all of You. I wish I could help you. I've made it this far and I'm not giving up or in. I want to know what I can do, and how to control all this and do a lot of good. I still remember the dreams and visions I was having when I was 16. I would run to my Mom, she'd hold me, and I'd tell her, but she'd keep telling me it was a bad dream. I do have some good dreams of my Mom and my son James, and would love to have them all the time. It feels to me that they come to me in my dreams to comfort me. Don't give up seeking help and finding ways to deal with it and control it. I'm not giving up. I've waited far too long, and lost too many loved ones. I blame myself for it all this time, and I'm a wreck inside out. Do something now, while your young, and don't be afraid because that will be one more thing you'll regret. I could say more, but not sure what or how either. I'd like to become totally involved with others who feel the same way also. I'm done with being afraid, well I'm trying. I agree with the empathy and precognition comments as well as the meditation, and I'm going to research further, and deeper. My email is uglywanda at hotmail.com if anyone would, please, write to me. I wish all of you well, and just hang in there. We will. We're all special, and I think that even so I feel so terrible. If the empathy of feeling anothers pain and suffering is right and I suspect that it is, then we have to come to some realization that it is not a fault or blame but to have the ability to be the one to be the last one they saw before they died must mean something. I want to know. Exhale. I can believe that, and it makes sense to me why I been seeing all these people's visions, the dreams, and shadows. There is more. All of you have more to say and share, what do we do? I feel like there is something we should be doing...something?

i kind of am the same... I am only 13 and so my skills are just beging but I like at night have dreams, and maybe two or three weeks later they come true. They're simple things like my mom gets me in trouble for something I didn't do, or stuff like that... Simiple stuff... But anyway, I also see things, rarely though, like a shadow or something moving really quicly, and back to the shadow part, I was in my hallway and it was like maybe 1 and was going to bed, and it was realy dark, and I looked at my door and thee was a shape really daker than the light, or what ever you wish to call it, but it was really dark, then it complety vanished and I was kind of scared.
Well thank you for reading bye,
Jon

Well, your skills seem rather useful. My thought is that eventually something will click and you will be able to exert more control over your ability.

Some say meditation is the key; or being in proximity to those with stronger skills; or that through practice you grow stronger.

I have been able to foresee silly things like, the plot line in a video game or novel, years before I have experienced the item. Its like a sudden insight of knowledge to me in a daydream-like state.

The only other thing I can foretell is of a more serious nature: death (usually only two months prior of the event and more commonly two weeks prior to, how the person who is in close proximity to me will die). That is more a curse than a blessing because nothing good has ever come of it despite my best intentions. This also occurs in a daydream-like state which also lasts only a moment, its like listening to a person but its not audio that you're listening to - its something else that I can't explain. All that comes on is simply knowing how but not when (and its usually soon).

Ive often wondered if I think too much. The interesting thing is that our emotions and/or state of being/mind tend to be linked to our abilities.

Just always pray to your god who is good so that he can protect you from dark negative forces. Good day 😊 😉 ❤

Thank you What you said Helped Me!
I will Read books about Psychic experiences and all that and plus I will try to meditate everyday =)
Oh and yes you have a good idea to write dreams down because sometimes I made a dream and once I wake up I can't remember it later. Also I'm the kind of person that loves to write a personal journal so I will write my dreams in there. Thank you for you Help its very appreciated. 😁 ❤

I think you are a watcher. We share some things in common. In my own opinion, use your ability for the common good of other people specially on animals and do not use it for your own personal gains. God had given us a special gift so that we can use it on helping our neighbors. Good day godspeed and take care always 😉 😊 ❤

I know things before they happen as well. I dream things before they happen. Sometimes during the day I get feelings about things and they are always right. Apparently, this must be genetic. My mother's mother, my grandmother, has had my psychic experiences her whole life though she's never really thought of them that way. She's more of like "look what happened and then this happened and isn't that neat." My sisters also have this ability. My sisters are twins (I'm not a twin but they are). One twin dreams things before they happen like me. The other twin gets feelings about things before they happen. Needless to say, when someone in this family gets a feeling or a dream, we've all learned to pay attention, lol.

As far as how to use this gift, I'm still trying to understand that as well. For instance, I've dreamt things at least 2-3 years into my future. As an example, I have a friend (or rather had. We had a falling out and I haven't spoken to her in over a year). I had a dream about her about 1 1/2 half ago. More of the things in the dream are coming true each day. In the dream, I saw her have a nervous breakdown. I saw her come to the realization that something is wrong. I saw her try to hurt herself (not a suicide attempt per se but clearly a cry for attention. Hard to explain here). I then saw her slowly start to suspect she might have inherited her mother's mental illness (my intuition/dreams show me she has). I'm telling you all this because although I would like to tell this person all this information in order to prevent them from crashing so hard (and its going to get rough on her real soon) she's not going to believe me. Plus, my dreams show me she needs this in order to understand that she really does need to get help and then she will get help. That's sort of the burden with precognition (the gift you have). It's a responsibility. How much do you reveal and how much do you not reveal? I'm still learning. With the above situation, I haven't figured out exactly what to do yet if anything. (I'm really not much help, am I? Lol)

You mentioned earlier that you made a dream happen. Actually, I don't think you did make that dream happen. That was an instance of precognition of someone else's experience. In the dream, you mentioned that it happened like it was happening to you and your family. (this sort of thing happens to me all the time by the way) You said when you woke up it kind of freaked you out because of that. I think the reason why the dream happened as if it was happening to you and your family is your empathy was kicking in. You experienced someone else's emotions or reality as if it was your own - empathy. Empathy is a psychic gift all people everywhere have. Most people don't use it. You'll find all psychics have some degree or varying forms of empathy. Basically, it means you are sensitive to other people's pain and suffering and love and happiness and all the emotions that make us human. I suspect that is how or why you dreamt the dream about the tornadoes happening to that town.

As far as how to develop or control your many gifts, this is what I've found. I have found that it is very useful to write dreams down. Your probably like me in that you have excellent recall of your dreams. For that reason, I avoided writing down my dreams for years. I didn't need to. However, I found that it is nice to have that piece of validation in writing that I dreamt something. It's nice to be able to look back on it in that way. Also, for some reason, the very act of writing down my precognitive dreams somehow must make me more open to precognition. I'm not sure why but they've been happening more and more frequently than they ever used to when I was a teen or in my early twenties. Either it's my age (I'm 31) or it's writing down my dreams.
Also, if you can find space within your day to meditate for 5 - 10 minutes everyday then, cliched as the advice may sound, it does help. Next piece of advice is to read as much literature as you can about psychic experiences and how to control and develop it and how it works, etc. You may find that reading information on astral travel would be helpful to you as well.
Finally, keep doing what you are doing. The more you talk about your experiences with family and friends and people of like-minded nature (such as the people on this site) the better you will be able to understand what's happening, how to develop your gifts, how to use them, and yes how to control them.

I hope I was able to be of some help. I just wanted to let you know that this is a very normal and natural gift that happens to quite a few of us. I also wanted to let you know that it seems like you are on the right track with it. Good luck!