I am now 34 years old. As long as I can remember I have had dreams about things that hadn't happened, yet. I have talked to family members that have passed on about things yet to come. Usually it was about illness sometimes death. I have known when something was bad or when something happened to my children. I know it says this is not a dream interpretation site, that's not what I'm looking for. Here are some examples.
I dreamed my mom got really sick when I was 9, I remember being told she was going to be ok, a few days later my mom had a stroke while at work.
I dreamed about my grandpa, he also got sick and spent time in the hospital.
My (dead) uncles woke me from a deep sleep, my house was on fire. Had a bruise of a hand print where I had been yanked up to a sitting position. No one new where it came from.
I was around 15 or 16 when I woke up in my bed by a lightin the room next to me and the door opening. A little woman told me my grandma was sick and needed my help. I still feel guilt over this. In 2010 I was setting my vehicle letting it warm up when I saw a cardinal (her favorite bird) the odd part is that I felt that this bird was watching me. My now ex husband came to the door and said I had a call. My mom told him to make me set down, she then told me my grandma had a stroke. She passed away on her birthday. She was 86 to the day. I have heard my grandma laugh and thought I was losing it. Here recently I was asleep dreaming about a few friends that I really didn't need to be around, ever, and my grandma opens a door and walked out. I remember being startled and not really knowing what to say since I was caught in a very bad position. I woke and thought wow that was wild. I miss her so much. The cool part, I do believe she has tried to make contact with me. When I opened my eyes my fiance was laying next to me asleep himself and with in a couple seconds he opened his eyes and called me a name that my grandma used whenever I stayed at her house. In the time we have been together he had never called me that before. There are times where I can feel her.
This isn't the only experience I have had. I have known when a major event happened, on more than one occasion. I get the feeling of deja vu. I have a couple friends that I seem to be connected to. I have sat and thought about someone in particular and if not the same then shortly after, I see them. I can sense whether a person is good or bad. Bad people I have come across I usually just walk away. I have been very mad and everything falls off shelves, or pictures fall off the wall. I'm not afraid of this at all. In fact I find it interesting. I have been treated for being bipolar although I'm now wondering how many of my manic episodes were actually a chemical imbalance or if I was feeling what someone near me was feeling. I have since stopped talking to most people. I stay to myself in hopes to stop arguing with my fiance about other peoples' problems. I have said things to him that a room mate was feeling and I didn't know. Things have been calm since I have pretty well secluded myself from mostly everyone I know. My son and daughter have both said things that they have no possible way of knowing. Is this something I can learn to control? If so, what do I do and how do I go about it?