I Knew My Fiance Died The Night He Died

I'm so sorry to hear of this tragedy! My condolences to you and your son.

But you can rest assured that it was a visitation from him--or it could have even been an entity like an Angel or Archangel. Entities like that have tremendous power to heal or help one feel better and understand the big picture. I know because I have been visited by Angels and Archangels. Regardless, your son received a gift--a visitation of some kind to help relieve his agony. How wonderful!

Yes, you might have been having premonitions. I am a medium, and I can tell you that spirits do indeed put images in our minds as a way to communicate. So there is a very good chance that he gave you that information so that you can start planning or preparing.

You are suffering from a devastating loss. You must grieve and deal with those feelings. However, I have hope that you will come to understnad that our souls continue on, they never go away or disappear. You will not be reunited because he is still with you now. If you allow yourself to be open to that, you may have more instances where you sense his presence or that he is communicating with you. It's tough because the person isn't physical (on earth) anymore... But they are still there. I hope that can bring healing to you.

I know it's not the same thing, but I will tell you a quick story. I had a tough 4 years. I lost everything--my job, my savings, my home, my health, and the love of my life all at the same time. I felt like I had nothing to live for. I had a very special cat, and sometimes I would hold him and think that he was my only joy in the world. I love him more than anything. I thanked God for him every day. He was only 1.5 years old when I started having premonitions that something would happen to him. After 5 days of premonitions, we found him dead. I was angry with God beyond words. I was suicidal, not understnading why everything good in my life had to be taken from me, even my pet for God's sake! I saw a psychic medium who told me that my kitty made the transition to Spirit so that he could help me better than he could have here on earth. The psychic said he slept on my bed every night. I was amazed--he had never done that in real life, but a couple days after he died, I woke up and saw a black mass curled up at the foot of my bed. I knew the psychic was right (he said many other amazing things as well).

So while it's not easy to understnad why your fiancee had to be "taken" so suddenly, in time maybe you will understand that he was not taken, it was somehow part of the plan all along. And in time, you might learn to look at this pain from a different angle and see what you actually gained from this experience rather than what you lost. I'm sorry if this concept is a bit premature at this stage of your grieving, but I wanted to put it out there for you to consider one day.

❤

I do understanding your feelings about a preminition
Of death.

I believe, he was preparing you as well as giving
Comfort to your son. He was giving you a heads-up regarding his family.

I had heeded a preminiton. My daughter lived!
But there were 3 deaths in the vehicle she would of
Traveled in, had I not heeded. I felt as if Death was at my front door. A horrible feeling I could not shake.

My Grandmother was always one of those people whom believed in healing old wounds, and most of the family acknowledged the strange activities of lights. Her presence was so tangible. I felt I could cut it with a knife.

With my Grandmother I got the normal warning with a burning smell. At her Burial I saw her smiling in her favorit chair in her living room at her home. She looked solid like you and me. She viewed her family sharing support for each other as she raised them to do.

In the 1994 My female counsin passed of away but I had seen her essence while awake. I knew she was saying Good Bye.

The pain of this loss will get easier with time.


Each of us is different and its really important to allow
Yourself the space and time to mourn.

My condolences and prayers to you and your son.

First, I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine having to deal with that.

As far as what is premonition or him putting flashes in your head, I think it's both. Before someone calls, I often know they will. We are all linked at some level, but much more so when they are close to us. I can even send a missing grocery item to my husband's head when he's at the store or send him mental messages as to where I want to go out for dinner. We are indeed intertwined and this is what 'premonition' is. It's part of the same fabric.

Absolutely your son could have received a visitation. I've read countless near death experiences and one of the greatest things that keeps some people from fully transitioning over is the love of their child. This may have been his goodbye (or as I like to say, "see you later"). You will all be reunited again.

Take care of yourself and that dear child.

Anne