Friends That Passed Come In Dreams

So glad I found a site to ask questions where I won't be laughed at. It started as a little girl, I could see figures watch them move. See family that had passed speak with them I can't hear them but I can see their mouths moving. I was told it was all in my head. As I turned to a teenager it got stronger, I saw more had stronger dreams and the feel of I did this before. About a year before my grandmother passed I woke up crying saying I don't want to lose her a week later was told she had lung cancer. Then had a dream about me in casket and my grandmother was there. But a few days later I was camping felt scared and found out that very same time I felt something was wrong my best friend died. And realized it wasn't me into the casket it was kimmie. I have also had friends that's passed come in dreams showed me how they died and showed me where to find things they were in a very bad car accident all died. Every house I have moved to seems like I have them follow me good and bad objects turn on and off. Covers being pulled be shaking. My husband didn't believe in these kind of things now a true believer I have tried to talk with them but nothing. I can hear them walking and see them in the room I would like to learn how to control this gift. I am no longer afraid. There's so much more but you get the picture what does this make me. I am serious about this and would like serious answers. Also I just had a daughter and I can tell she can see things I see I worry about this due to how scary it was for myself as a child.