Too Much Pain

I am a 2nd generation psychic. (Supposedly, this is what I am told. I never believed much until now) My mother is born on the autumn equinox and I am born on the spring equinox. Her sister is also a Halloween baby. I was born the same day and time my husband's father passed in a tragic fire. He always said to my mother in law, look for the number 11, it's special. My son was then born on 1-11-11.

I suffer from c-ptsd since early childhood and because of that I have seen dark figures and shapes and colors my whole life. Recently, I got married and had a son, and we moved in with his parents. His father in law has a heart condition and his mother has mangled nerves/disks in her back. Not long after I moved in I started to feel both of their pains, and I am doubled over in excruciating pain now. I realize now that this is all of their pain transferring to me because I have a wretched toothache and I just found out that mom chipped her back tooth. I thought this was just part of my condition, somatic pains and such.

Is there a way for me to shut this off when I am near to them? Walking outside helps sometimes but not enough. But they are also very negative people. I can sense their tension a lot too and they are a constant drain on my energy.

I want to help them, I do not want to move out and leave them un-cared for or in a nursing home. They have great potential, and I'm sure they are willing to work with me and to make a change, I just need to know what to do. I also think though that maybe they are getting a little scared of me. Should I just let it go and leave them be and not mention this anymore? They seemed a bit shocked and frightened when I predicted their mother in the hospital after an explosion causing a window to shatter.

Also needing advice with. I keep noticing packs of crows everywhere I go, I am seeing color in meditation, I am having lucid out of body and flying dreams, and frequent ice-pick migraines. My therapist and psychiatrist think that this is spiritual, and that I should seek spiritual guidance for this aspect of my life. I recently made my therapist burst into tears after I accidentally mentioned a passed love one in her office. Sometimes I feel possessed or under attack, how do I ward off those feelings?

I need some direction and control of my abilities. I've lost plenty of friends by using my foresight and scaring the beejesus out of them. I just thought I was giving a valuable insight to their problem, I didn't realize that they would spread rumors that I'm some kind of a crazy psychic.