Is It Really All In My Head?

This story is so exactly the same (but i'm Jacob, the depressed guy) as mine I thought you were the guy in my P.E. Class saying this. Scared the hell out of me because my name is Jacob and I thought you were Jeremy.

Did I mention one of the guys I talked about before who I always felt tired around is a psychic vampire? Sadly there are people out there that drain your energy whether their doing so on purpose or not. I wouldn't recommend becoming his friend.

Powerslave could have a point. But you never know. It could be a crush or he could be a demon. If this demon finds you as a threat, he is going to want to drain your defenses. Or he is just a regular kid with powers like other kids on here and he just doesn't know that he has this gift. Still be aware though that these are just guesess and anything can happen. You should try talking to more people about it. 😊

I think this boy is an energy vampire. That is the term it was given, but don't think cliche vamp. It simply means that he takes your energy because he needs it so that he has energy. You can still talk to this boy and everything, you just need to tell him you know what hes doing and it needs to stop. That he needs to find a diffrent source of energy.

Blessed be
Lolli ❤

I agree completly with what natural_day_dreamer said about psi Vamps in general. The kid who is in your gym class may not even know that he is having this kind of effect on you. From my own personal expireinces of something similar to this, there is something that you can prevent from learing to shield yourdelf from him. Or you can try to connect with him on a psi level.

We do know what this means. From what you are describing, the boy is a GC worker. Please contact us asap at VendettaSiblings [at] hotmail.com We would feel better talking about this personally. We hope to hear from you soon.

-Val3

Hmmm... You say you can't make physical contact with him- how about psychic contact? Maybe, if he is a psychic, he would get the message. Do you have lunch together? If so, try a simple message like "Look at me". See if he does. If he makes you feel weak he may have some way of affecting your energy. Try pulling your energy back and making it less obvious/available. I wish you the best of luck! ❤

Hi Daydreamer. I must speak with you soon. Its odd because I had an issue back in my teenage years that are scaryingly similar to yours. I don't care about posting my e-mail here. Contact me at pyrocat100 [at] hotmail.com.

The thing with psi vampires or any type of energy eater, or soul eater is that it transforms from a need into a craving. You will see that you draw energy needy beings to you when you have a high spirtaul pressure. Here on Earth and Verse. Try making your spirtaul pressure lower.

first off, too powerslave, if you can't have an op[en mind to things why are you on this sight? There is a phenomena known as a psychic vampire, look it up.

Daydreamer, I haven't read your previous post, but I definitely will after reading this. Its kind of intriguing. I have never had something like this happen so extremely, but I have had similar. A guy I used to be friends with was very good at manipulating his energy and others around him. Your guy sounds like he might be able to do the same? Especially if your a very strong spirited person, he may be drawn to you in a sense, explaining why he stays close to you. If it bothers you too much, you should try meditating and work with your own energy and try practicing trying to block him out or lessen how much it gets to you. I'm not so sure if its so much as a psychic connection than an energy connection. Unlike what powerslave (nice name by the way) said, there is a phenomena known as a psychic vampire, where a the said 'vampire' is able to tap into and borrow (borrow sounds better than drained or sucked, because that kind of makes me think of vampires you see in the movies, which these people aren't. They don't usually take blood, and the reason some do is because blood is the energy of life. You should look into it) someone else's energy and draw from it, usually leaving the person they've borrowed from tired and depending on how much they've borrowed, feeling sick and nauseous. From what I've experienced, in a psychic connection, both people get both good and bad from it, not just one being all hunky dory and the other left tired and feeling ill. I do agree with Rilan that if this boy is a psychic vampire or something of the sort, it does sort of sound like he's doing it on purpose, maybe because your energy for him personally is strong because you like him. And I also agree with visualizations to protect yourself from such things. I'd start easy with finding a color your closest to and visualizing yourself in a bubble of it. Start doing such things in the safety of your own home. With enough control of your own energy this way, you should be able to lessen his attempts at first, and hopefully diminish them all together. What I don't completely agree with Rilan is about psychic vampires ruining people's lives. That's like saying all black people are murderers, or all red heads are whores. Its unfair to judge a whole by individual actions. I will admit that I have come across a number of psi vamps who abuse and over use what they can do. But that doesn't mean ALL psi vamps are like that. Some are just like any other person, but with the ability to do what the not so nice ones do. It all depends on the individual, so please, don't judge them all just by what certain people have done. And there's always two sides to a story.
I wish you luck in solving the issue with this guy. And if it doesn't stop, I definitely suggest confronting him, especially if he seems aware of what he's doing. Good luck and blessed journeys ahead for you.
N_D_D

This is clearly a psychic connection where spiritual growth can be made. The intensity of thought (telepathic communication) has created a psychic relationship between the both of you. Immediately psychic cords have been formed and are uniting and moving energy and experience between the two of you. You are sharing emotions and communicating on a spiritual level, which can leave you feeling very drained and emotionally off balanced. The attraction between the two of you, even if its not nor will be a romantic relationship is an attraction worthy paying attention to, for the lesson involved here is about psychic protection.
I recommend a form of meditation where you imagine him opposite yourself, and explaining you are cutting the cord of connection and in doing so you are creating a safe space between the both of you, sending him love and blessings on his journey. Listen carefully in what you may hear in his response, whilst performing this ritual. I also advise you programme a clear quartz crystal for psychic protection and wear it especially during those sports days, and under your pillow when sleeping. I am positive after cutting the cord the answers you have been seeking shall surface.
Sending you much Love and Happiness. ❤

i did somthing the same when I was in high school, it was when I started to get more and more powerfull... When I was around this girl I fet like I was growing stonger and stronger and I didn't know what I was doing... Soon enough she told me that when I'm around her I make her feel sick... I was pritty gutted by it but I soon learnt to channel other people energys as my own and send my energy to others... For example my mum has probems walking at the moment so I send her my energy and it makes her feel beeter and able to walk with her arthritis... But in return I get her pain. So as I just left college and am new to all of this I can only recomend to talk to him but be nice about it don't be a up your self ike the girl was too me XD

No, Wrong, there are a lot of things that are real, but Vampires are a load of crap, Also, "Psychic vampire"? Really? Someone reads too much twilight. Seems like a clear cut case of a subconsious crush, nothing supernatural here, sorry to dissapoint

Like what skywire4929 said he might be psychic too. Or he might be a psychic vampire with the energy draining. I think you should do more researcg on this connections,I've never experianced anything like it but it sounds very interesting. Best of wishes!

Blessed be
Cass ❤

This boy...
I think he is a psychic too. He could be draining all of your energy considering that he never parts completely with you or that he's sprit power is very strong enough to push you down like me:D.

Well ruexpirience, I have thought about the possibility of me liking him and not being able to admit it, I have thought that over many times. And true I used to have a crush on him (almost 3 years ago) and yeah he's an attractive guy, but he has nothing that I look for in a relationship. We would never work together, he's so different from me, and he can be really obnioxious and a jerk sometimes, and I hate that. So I don't get why we're total opposites, yet I keep feeling something strange and he keeps creeping up in my dreams! I have had at least 3 dreams he was in, over the past year or so. And they are always so strange! So different from any other dreams I have! Sometimes they're like puzzles, and I have to figure out what theyre trying to say. So far I have only solved one...maybe...not sure. I dunno, I'm just confused o.O

what kind of school do you go too?! I go to a large school and I am not a popular person and I can talk to whoever I want. Because if you do have psychic abilities, use them! If you are so afraid of the social gap use your manipulation abilites to get what you want. Ask him why he keeps looking at you. You can tell when he's lying most likely. Maybe you like him and you don't know it or you like him and you won't admit it. Or... You made a subconscious connection, because you liked him the minute you saw him. That's why you keep defending him, that's why your so worried. Also Why don't you move away? Does he follow you? Do you have nothing else to focus on? Connections can be broken, but it's like you don't want to break it. Also, this is for everyone else you need to stop telling her that he is a psychic vampire! No. 1 He's a "popular" teenage boy! An AMERICAN teenage boy! He doesn't know the difference between a tarot card and a carrot! He probably thinks they are related in someway. No. 2 you make him sound like he's some supernatural creature and you'll make her think of him even higher. (not that you think he's divine) anyway, I'm going to end with this, not everything strange in this world is supernatural, many of times I've tried to think things were, but they aren't. So maybe the big bad scientist may be right about some things, horrible I know. But If some random high school boy is bothering you this much, you will never make it in this world. There are too many messed up people in this world that's going to mess with you, toughen up. Our comments are as far as we can get you, and the internet will only confuse you. (too many people think they know everything) you have to finish this on your own, it's your emotions. What do think you should do?

Be careful with connections, though. You can easily misinterpret them. I have done so in the past. I had a very strong connection with someone, as I commented on your last post. We dated, but it didn't work out. We're still the best of friends, and though we weren't meant to be together, I believe we were still meant to meet because a lot changed in my life after we did. So don't think you have to dump your boyfriend just because you have a strange connection with this guy--it may not be what you think.
Personally, in my own situation, I think that we met in a past life, and that we needed to meet again in this one.
Daydreamer, I'm sure you'll figure out what's going on in your own situation--you'll know what to do. And I know that some things seem so important in high school, but trust me, after I left, the 'popular kids' weren't even friends anymore, and everyone else grew up a bit. ^^
Blessings
Adaryn7

You say you don't like him and that he "can't" like you and you have a boyfriend and trust me I understand... I'm in highschool too and the drama and everything is very stressful... But I am connected to my boyfriend and he asked me out for 3 months before I gave it a try and that was a year and 5 months ago... And your connection seems even stronger... And though I have no proof and know very little about what's going on with me much less anyone else... I believe the connection means something... It has to or it wouldn't be there... And when I said he was doing it on purpose I didn't mean he was bad... I ment maybe he was seening what would happen if he got close to confirm something was happening...

just a random thought I got while reading this but is it possible that there is a likeing you don't really see as a relationship style thing or just that fact that you trust him that your possibly being drained? Like you think youre on guard but in a subcouncious youre not? And also its amazing I had never heard of psi vamps the other day and I see a lot of talk on here about people haveing a guide do they normally just come to you or do you find them I'm really curious I have been "gifted" since I could remember but I have been runnin solo besides the few people I meet here and there but I have never met in person anyone that's "gifts" were a refined as mine and I'm kind of pondering if maby I had a guide well ~grin~ just what I would be capable of very odd question I know... But like I said what I know I had to learn on my own and to me I think that's pretty good

thanks you guys:) I'll be looking out for things and writing them on here as they go. I still don't think he's a vampire, cause I read that when you have a "psychic chord" with someone, you can feel drained around them. So that's prob what it is. But ill keep you posted:]

Thanks again

Hey, I think you should talk to him and get to know him, maybe one day tell him how you feel. He may be like Rilan said a psychic vampire and I don't need to repete what he said. Always stay on guard with him though! Never let it down.

Hope it helped!

I so do not miss high school ^^'
In that case, you need to protect yourself. Meditate, and if you're in contact with your guides, then maybe you can ask them what's going on. Otherwise, your safety comes first.
Adaryn7

See that's the thing I can't talk to him. He's too popular I'd look like an idiot. There's no reason for him to like me and there's no reason for me to like him. We're complete total opposites and I have a boyfriend anyway. So I have no interest in him, other than figuring out why I feel a weird connection.

My first two thoughts were that he was a vampire (as Rilan suggested), or, that maybe you like him more than you realise. I think maybe you should talk to him. I wouldn't start the conversation by saying "Hey, are you draining my energy?" But maybe you'll get more of an idea as to what exactly is going on between you just by engaging him in conversation and getting to know him. If he likes you, than you may have the advantage here and be able to catch him off guard. It's amazing what you can learn from people when you do. ^^
Otherwise, you need to start protecting yourself. Meditate on a shield everyday before class that will keep your energy intact.
Adaryn7

or maybe he likes you and is too shy to show unformally, possibly afraid of making himself look like a fool.

I honestly don't think hes doing it on purpose. He's not like that. I really do feel strongly that he is a good person. I just think maybe our connection is too strong. I mean just today in gym after playing frisbee, he gave the 2 girls on our team high 5's but promptly ignored me, not in rude way, almost like he was nervous.

I just read your first story and this one back to back and reading the first one I thought it was a connection... Like a good one. I am connected to my boyfriend and I feel the week thing and know how he feels and knowing when hes near or looking at me... But then I got to the part about your legs getting week and feeling nausious... And I only get that feeling around people I fear... But it seems to me he knows... Or maybe he suspects and that's why he was staying so close.

He might be a vampire. Not a twilight vampire, but a psychic vampire. Psi vampires suck out other people's psychic energy and it ruins people's lives, diminishing their abilities, making them depressed, and giving them real physical problems. Some are unintentional psi vampires. They have insufficient energy for themselves so they subconsciously use their chakras to suck other people's energy. There are many degrees of psychic vampires. Some are just people that make you feel drained when you are around them. Some are more serious. This boy sounds like he's doing it on purpose, or like some part of him knows he is feeding off you. You can use protective visualizations to block him out. If you look up psychic vampires and how to ward them off, you will see what I mean.