Seeing, Dreaming And Feeling

My story isn't very exciting but due to the recent experiences I needed to find some information about what's happening.

When I was very young, probably around 4, me and my big brother were on bed going to sleep. 2 voices started talking to me. These voices said some nasty things for a long time in a loud voice, like someone was standing next to my bed! I was so scared I couldn't move or scream! After a while the voices just faded away.

Another unpleasant experience happened when I was 14. I was on a fishing trip in lapland. We spent a few nights in a very old desert cottage. As I was falling in to sleep I started hearing nasty voices again. There was this mad laughter and I felt like someone was pulling me away from my bed. This time I could recognize there was a woman present and she was extremely mad. Some might say these were just bad dreams and nothing else?! And maybe they were?

After what happened in lapland there was a long time nothing happened. Or if it did I didn't realize it! Occasionally I could hear what I call a scream like whisper of my name when I was laying in my bed trying to sleep! (I am really not familiar with any terminology or anything else in these subjects and I apologize for that)

So these were the "first encounters". After few years had past from these I started actually having these dreams of my family members. Something good or bad happening to them. For example - I had a dream where my uncle told me he had a cancer before he even knew he had it. And my grandfather getting out of hospital all cured, when everyone in my family thought this was were he would be for the rest of his life.

I've heard from my grandmother that her sister and mom had "dreams" too.

I also had some other stuff happening to me or around me - few months ago as I was sitting by myself on my sofa laptop on my lap, I suddenly noticed 2 people like figures in the corner of my eye. I looked at them and they disappeared. I turned my head back to the computer and there they were again... I didn't turn my head and tried to watch them from the corner of my eye. They were shadow like and transparent but I could recognize some of their features. Other one was a young woman and the other one was young man. The man seemed to be angry. This I couldn't see but I somehow felt it. I have seen them only ones but I sometimes feel like they are around. Sometimes I feel them in my sons room when I go check out if he is sleeping all right! I've told them in my head to please stay away from my son because I don't want them to scare him. I'm not scared of these "things" but I at first I was a little worried... Mostly worried of my own sanity and afraid to share this with my wife or my friends. I have told my wife and she is still my wife:) Few of my friends know but not all of them.

First and foremost I would like to know if these even are psychic experiences or something else?! And if they are! Is there some way to "learn" how to use it better?