Am I A Medium Or Are These Coincidences?

Ever since I was about 5 or 6 years old, I have been having some very different experiences. The first experience I remember is having a dream about playing hide and seek with a man who claimed to be my older brother. The next day, my mother told me that she had miscarried a baby boy a few years before I was born.

The next experience that I remember is when I had a dream about a woman with black curly hair and green eyes. She told me that I didn't know who she was now, but I would know soon. She turned out to be my Great-Aunt Rachel who had died 20 years before I was born.

I was walking one day with my friends and I saw an elderly man struggling to walk and I asked him if he needed some help and he told me that he didn't. My friends asked who I was talking to and I turned to them and said that I was talking to the man there. When I turned around he was gone and my friends claim that no one was ever there.

I was reading a book about hauntings and I saw a picture of a man that was supposedly possessed. I felt very scared and immediately closed the book. That night I saw a dark shadow leaned over my bed. I tried to get up, but I couldn't move so I closed my eyes. I felt someone breathing on my neck and I heard someone whisper "don't be scared." When I opened my eyes, the shadow was gone.

The things that happen to me most often are the dreams I have of the near future. Almost every night, I dream about things that happen within the next few days. Sometimes the dreams are of little things, like seeing someone walk past me in a store, or sometimes they are big things, like the time I dreamed about being in a car accident.

I've asked many people what they think is the cause of these experiences and dreams. Some people tell me that they think it is all coincidence and some say that I am a medium. Right now, I don't know what to believe and I was wondering if anyone could give me an answer as to if I am a medium or if this is all just coincidence.