The other day I was sitting on the couch in my living room watching t.v. I heard some noise in the guest room but I ignored it because I'm used to hearing noises in there. But then something ran right across me. Then it jumped onto the column right next to the couch and walked over to me. Next it tickled me. I would say tickled because I was laughing. I was confused because I've never met a ghost before and I'm scared of them then I figured out it was a child I'm guessing it was playing a joke on me.
Now that little boy follows me around a lot almost everywhere except to school and stores and outside places. Since then, I am always hearing voices calling my name and it's really weird except I don't know if the voices are him or other ghosts saying it. Also sometimes in the night, I can hear voices except their mumbled and I can't exactly tell what their saying. But it's usually two people talking or someone singing a song. What I am really trying to see how to overcome my fear of ghosts so I van probably help them go to the other side or find someone that's not me to help them cross to the other side so can you guys help me overcome my fears because I haven't gotten much sleep since that boy follows me around so please help.
Know firstly that you are in control. Yes - I am not joking - you are. You may at some point need to help this little boy to cross over (although he may be here to give you a message first). You are not ready to help him yet and need to learn how to do this.
If you want to help him and others I suggest that you first focus on setting aside times that you are happy to communicate with him and that you choose to set very clear boundaries about times when you wish to be left alone (e.g. When you need to sleep). Experienced mediums are very firm about establishing times when they wish to be left alone and get some rest or just get on with day-to-day activities in peace.
To do the above you need to learn how to open and close your self down to spirit communication. While there are plenty of magazines and online sources providing you with information on meditations that you can use to do this, I suggest that you do not do this alone (at least not to begin with). I gained a lot of knowledge of learning how to safely open up to communicate with spirit and learning how to safely close down by joining a psychic circle. Most spiritualist churches have an open circle that you can join. The experienced mediums at the circles will also give you the guidance that you need to understand why this little boy and others have come to you and how to help them if necessary. Remember that you have the choice to help spirits or not.
In the mean time while you are finding a circle I think that when you really wish to be left alone talk to the boy very nicely but firmly (as you would to a real child) and tell him that you need to concentrate on something/ need to have some sleep/ need to have a rest and that you will be able to "play again with him later". You should also remember that you are being protected and helped by your own personal spirit guides, deceased relatives and friends and angels. If at times you need them to help you to be left alone or to communicate with the spirits that come to you all you need to do is ask your guides/ loved ones that have passed to help you and they will. You can get immediate respite when you feel extremely frightened about spirit communication by visualising a bright white light surrounding your entire body and imagining that you are shouting "Protect, Protect, Protect".
I wish you all the best.
Mel x