Possibly Seeing Spirits And Abilities

I'll do my best to keep this short- Ever since I was little I've always had abilities and I'm not sure if they are necessarily psychic but they are out of the ordinary, hence why I am here! I used to be able to see and communicate with spirits. The first time I noticed this was at a funeral, I saw the spirit of my uncle being taken somewhere and locked away, which I found out years later another family member of mine wrote a very detailed letter to my mother about how he had seen the exact same thing as I did. (He didn't know I had seen that so it was very strange that he had reached out and told the exact same story to my mom) I have fallen slightly out of touch with that since I have gotten older mostly because I was afraid of them. However I have started to look more into these abilities and things have started happening again, I'm not really sure how this is possible or what's making them apparent to me again. Another thing that happens to me a lot is making things I want to happen. As in all I would have to do is want something bad enough and in some way it would come true. Sometimes it comes true months later but it always happens. Lastly, when I was a child I had someone ask me to guess what each key he was holding went to, all he did was hold it up and look at me. I happened to guess all of the uses correctly. That could be purely coincidental but I have heard of tests like this before so I'm not sure if that will help sort out any of what is going on. It really all doesn't make sense to me which is why I need help!