Ghosts Try To Talk To Me

I'd suggest the book Discovering the Medium Within by Anysia Kiel (it's kind of my medium bible). It has exercises for meditating as well as helping strengthen your abilities, but first I'd like to say, do this VERY SLOWLY. I understand enthusiasm and wanted to get involved and get good, but this takes time and practice and a lot of caution. There is a lot of bad energy out there.

Let your sensitivity evolve naturally, I think. And meditate (which you've probably been told a hundred times).

Good luck!

I'll second A1600 about the scratch marks. I didn't want to jump to conclusions or scare you, but if something touches you it's not a ghost. If the experiences continue to be bothersome (either because they're scary or disruptive) you'll need to reinforce your warding. Since you already pray, ask for your guardians to protect you and ward you from all intrusions. Engaging bad spirits (either through conversation or attack methods) is not recommended, unless you know what you're dealing with and how to get rid of it. Otherwise a passive entity can become active. So ignoring it & warding yourself is better for now.

If you hear things fall, make sure you check it out in the morning. And see if something has actually moved. Every sound you hear isn't necessarily paranormal. Sometimes people thought their houses were haunted (because of night noises) and reported spirit activity, just to discover they had raccoons walking on their roof or other animals, or minor landslides caused noises & cracks in the wall. So take each sound separately. Now if things physically fall, repeatedly, tell us and we'll discuss that then. A spirit that moves things won't do it once (unless it was a one-time visitor in which case you're problem isn't there anymore).

Also some houses are built in such a way that they trap bad energy. Or even good energy. But energy needs to flow and move properly. Just in case you're dealing with a location issue, move things in your room (if possible) in a different arrangement. It can be simple like switching a mirror place, moving different items around, or changing the softness of your light. Some ghosts are only an image or sound projection and if they're being captured is that the place allows it by the way the space is filled. Also repainting a different color can help, but this might not be in your control given you're young. Yellow is a color used for walls sometimes, but it's the most stress-increasing one. I'd avoid yellow in a room that is causing you stress already:P

Sorry for taking so long to reply. Cheers ❤

If these spirits are scratching you, then there not good spirits. If I was you, I would do some more research about this and try to figure out how to get rid of them. It's sweet that you want to help them, but if they're not coming to you (which if they're not talking to you, then there not.) and there just bothering you, then there's something wrong. In my experience with ghosts, they don't like touching people especially if they've just recently died, it freaks them out to try to touch people. Normal ghosts looking for help don't scratch. I'm sorry that this is happening to you, do some research and try to figure out what they could be and then tell them to leave you alone and try to figure out how to get rid of them. I hope I helped.

allinbetween, I'm doing fine, and you? Well when I said "endless talking, footsteps, and things falling" it happens all the time. I'll hear ghosts whisper to each other, and endless walking back and forth even when I don't sleep in my room, me and my mom hear it all the time like in the middle of the night. Also, things really fall, I'll hear a loud bang that will wake me up and try to check what it is. Most of the time I am too scared to and try to fall back to sleep. I do have a cat and every night she sleeps on my bed, when I hear things falling she is laying right next to me.
The scratches on my back, I am sure that they weren't there before I had this experience. I was bending down the whole day trying to make my desk. Nothing would have touched my back.
I know that I can't bring them to the light, but it makes me feel sad that they are trapped here. I could try to help them see that there is no reason to stay here anymore.
I know they can't hurt me, but it's can be scary sometimes. Talking to someone who has passed on, I remember when I was really little watching this show "Ghost Whisperer", thinking it would be cool to actually talk to them. But this is real life, not a tv show and it kind of scares me.
I will keep on posting! I know I'm going to have to live this gift for the rest of my life. I am glad to have people like you and lilylove to help me. Thank you for the advice! 😁 ❤

Hi there how are you?
When you said:
>> It would be endless talking, footsteps, and things falling.

What do you mean 'things falling'? Like hearing noises and stuff?

Now it's great that you want to help these spirits. But here's the problem: you can't. I mean if the ghosts need help, the only help they need is to go into the Light. Given that you aren't exactly the Ruler of the spiritual realm, you don't have the power to bring them there. So instead of acting upon them, your best option is to pray to God for these Spirits to be taken into the Light. Pray in your own words, (personal prayers have more power) the way you feel it, and ask for what you think is best for them. The Spirits might not have the power to pray for themselves but you can pray for them. It can be that simple.

Now the scratch marks. It's possible you had a normal scratch earlier but only felt it later when it started burning. That's the most logical explanation. Ghosts don't have the capacity to touch you, they're in a different world. These experiences have made you edgy, I understand it's scary, but try to relax. Nothing can harm you & the words you hear although it feels near can be a whole dimension away from you. That's very far.

I used to have the same problem with meditation when I was younger. I couldn't concentrate long enough. Doing mild physical exercise, like stretching while imagining a light that was healing and positive worked for me, because staying still was difficult.

Everything you do that strengthens your spirituality, like prayer, will help you deal with such experiences with more confidence. Good luck.

Please keep us posted on how things go. 😊
Ps- just because you saw something, it doesn't mean it needs anything, or that it is what you think it is. Anything that bugs your comfort sucks, even if it's a spirit. Don't let it take over your life, and make you adapt your lifestyle to IT. This is where strength of mind is needed to block things out. If you're kind you automatically think: this needs something. But that could be your kindness talking not the truth. With time you'll be able to tell each experience apart. Cheers. ❤

Thank you for your kind words.
I do know what it it like when your family doesn't understand. This is why I am on this website so I can be around people like ourselves who understand what we are going through.
And if you have anymore questions please do ask.

lilylove, thanks for the advise. I will try as soon as I can. My family can't understand what I go through, I'm just glad that people like you do. Thank you!

A great way to meditate if you are struggling is a choosing a word that has a special meaning and repeat over and over until your mind becomes completely focused on that word.
Another way is to listen to relaxing music.

[at] lilylove
I try to meditate, but it is hard because I just keep thinking constantly. Every little thing distracts me like if I hear a little noise while trying to meditate. I try to think what the noise is, then I snap out of it by saying to myself "you are trying to meditate". This happens over and over and I just give up. I have crystals to help me meditate, but it only works for a little bit. Also, I pray every night and ask for the white light of God to cover me. I sometimes even pray in the morning or whenever I feel evil.

Meditating is a good way to clear your mind.
Perhaps your mind is over filled with too many thoughts. Too many thoughts can block psychic abilities.
Our minds are like a trash can and overtime the trash will fill up until it overflows.
If you don't mediate or relax your mind, you will end up blocking your ability with too much baggage in your mind.
So if you want to improve your ability
You should meditate. And remember your ability will grow as you get older.
Also since you are only fourteen don't take on too much if you can't handle it. Its not good to be exhausting yourself.
Tell the spirits you can only help them one at a time. Also you should look for prayer techniques to keep yourself safe from negative spirits.