Spirit Fading?

My name is john I'm 21 years old and I'm a recent college graduate. I am also embracing my gift as a medium. I have always had "experiences" my mother or myself could not explain. Recently I encountered a young spirit she was about 12 to 13 years of age dressed in a blue dress of late Victorian style. She was clearly aware of my presence and only had two things to say the first was "Can you see me?" I answered yes I can. The second thing she asked was "Can I stay with you?" I felt no evil presence with her so I agreed to allow her to stay.

I have learned her name and what happened to cause her death. Her name is Sarah and she past away due to some kind of sickness. I'm sure it was scarlet fever but I'm not yet sure. She reminds me of my little sister and it seems as the days go by her figure becomes more and more of a haze I believe she is crossing over but I'm not sure if this is a fact or what perhaps someone with greater knowledge could give me some kind of answer as to whether or not this is the case. She would also like to know.

She seems pleasant and willing to learn new things she visits me on a daily basis and enjoys it when I read old story's such as 10, 000 leagues under the sea and other Jules Verne novels. She often brings other spirits of children with her on occasion and they spend time with me as well. Sarah also tells me how she feels when I have female company at the house she says they look funny in the new style skirts and that the clothing designers should be fired. Anyway I'm glad to share my experience with you guys and hope you enjoyed reading this.