I have noticed that if I try really hard I can make people do little things. Like I can make them turn a certain way or in class make them tap their pencil or bite their nail (Even if it's something that they wouldn't normally do at that time)
Like once I made a guy flip his head like if he had long hair he would be flipping it.
Once I tried my hardest to make some girl sitting a couple seats in front of me in class itch the back of her hand and I could see her hand slowly getting pink then red and then she looked back really quickly and stared at me like she knew I was doing something (this broke my concentration) then when she turned back to sit down her hand was not red anymore.
When I try to do these things I breathe deeply and slowly and drop my worries and stresses of the day and others to come. Then I either imagine or can see, I do not know which, an either light blue or light green kind of stream floating towards the person from me. It moves in surges as it progresses and when it reaches the person I can feel some thing change. That's when instead of an open empty mind I have a narrow mind only on what I want the person to do. I have to keep my breathing relaxed and the same beat the whole time though and depending on how far the person is away from me it takes a wile because the river thing moves slowly.
Please post comments on how to help more on how to control this and make it stronger because I can only do little things and would like to learn on how to do more.