The Element

My name is Ethan and I am from Australia. When I was about 8 I always had dreams about a wizard who wanted to train me to unlock my inner element so I could defeat an evil demon who would destroy the world, It sounds a little cheesy but I did have the dream. Of course this didn't happen but I remember that dream like it actually happened and followed all the steps that happened. Step 1 The wizard told me to light a candle, step 2 he told me to concentrate on the flame that was it and then the flame grew bigger than a house and I felt like I had more power than anybody else in the universe. That dream really inspired me so I decided to try it out myself, after I tried it out It took me about two minutes of tensing my body and staring at that candle then suddenly the flame grew, It didn't grow as big as a house but It definitely grew big enough to tell that I had a the power to control fire. Ever since then I was able to move a flame around on a candle and make it grow bigger and smaller, In my dream I was actually able to create fire at will but that hasn't happened yet. I've been controlling fire for 4 years now but I still can't make a flame at will, all I can do is move around a tiny flame on a candle. I practice every day after school because I'm still interested in it. If anyone has any idea how to control fire at will please comment how to I've been waiting 4 years to feel that awesome power I did in my dream.