Hey everyone, this is my first time writing on this site, but I have read several stories on here. My story is more of a question actually, and I apologize, but I have been thinking about it for a while and I would really like feedback.
I have a friend, Dee, and she and I seem to have a telepathic connection of some sort. As far as I can remember it started last February. We have worked together for a while now, but before last February we were more just work friends. We got along and liked each other well enough, but at that time probably neither of us would have said we were best friends -just work friends. But in February another co-worker was having a birthday party, it was her 21st and she was planning to go all out -hitting clubs and drinking and such. She had been talking about it for a while but plans had changed so much by the time her birthday rolled around that I was starting to have second thoughts about going. Honestly, I was only planning on going if Dee was going because it sounded like she would be the only person I would know and be talking to most of the night. However, she and I did not get a chance to talk about it the last time we worked together before the party. The night of the party, I ended up bailing, for a lot of reasons but for most of the night I was tempted to text Dee to find out if she was going. However, I envisioned her getting my text while she was with everyone at dinner and them finding out that I had only planned ongoing if she was going and feelings being hurt and drama starting... So, I refrained from texting her.
A few days later at work, Dee and I were talking about the girl's party and as it turned out she had ended up not going either for the same reasons that I had decided not to go. But the funny thing was that she also had thought about texting me the night of the party to see if I was going, but then didn't for the exact same reasons that I had not texted her. Another interesting thing about this was that while there was a lot of reasons we both decided not to go, I think a big part of it was that we both kind of felt like it would be a lot of drama. And our intuition was certainly right about that, though I won't go into detail about what happened, I'll just say that I think Dee and I made the right decision not to go.
We still laugh when we talk about this time, and we have become much closer friends -we also started working more shifts together which I am sure has also helped us become closer friends. And we have many telepathic moments where we will be thinking the same thing and one of us will say it out loud and the other will say 'I was just about to say that!' Or we will both start saying the same thing at the same time. Usually we laugh about it and make a joke about reading each other's minds and we forget about it until it happens again.
The other night is what made me decided to write this down. I was up around 11pm and decided to make an impulsive Wal-Mart run to buy Paranormal Activity 3, I'm a nerd I know but I love those movies, plus I have a huge interest in supernatural stuff. Anyway, as I was leaving Wal-Mart after buying the movie, I texted Dee (who knows I love scary movies, and who I've been trying to convince to watch the Paranormal Activities movies) and told her I had just bought the third one and we needed to have a movie night to watch them all. Almost immediately after I sent that text, I got a text message from her that was completely unrelated to what I had just said. I was thinking to myself 'that's hilarious, we must have been texting each other at the same time,' when I got another text from her that said, "Dang, that's weird we were texting each other at the same time I think!"
I realize how trivial this entry probably seems, I feel somewhat silly writing it as it could easily be just random coincidences and nothing more. I wish I could give you more specific examples about our 'telepathic moments' at work but unfortunately whenever they have happened, we did not think much of them and laughed about it but did not keep note of them. But we have had those kind of moments countless times, where we will be thinking the same thing or text each other at the same time or something to that effect and I have wondered before if its possible that we could have some sort of telepathic connection or even a past life connection, is that even possible? Or could it be that we are meant to be friends for some reason? (Not that I'm complaining because she's an awesome person and friend).
Anyway, I promise I am not trying to waste anyone's time, I am honestly just curious as to what you think. I am fully aware that I could just be overly excited about nothing, and if that turns out to be the case I can accept it. But I figured there are some very great minds on this site who could give me some insight/information, or even who can tell me if its just random coincidences and nothing more. Either way, I just want to hear what you think. Thank you very much!