Guardian Story And Developing Ability

We'll I've never really thought of the idea of having a spirit guide. Until I really noticed that s/he was there. And respected my decisions and gave me hints of advice.

I'm having a bit of bronchitis, which I'm starting to learn more about chakras, which might be the reason why I'm having trouble talking and seeing spirits.

As for the lady, you'll have to convince her about moving on. And you should get your cousin to help you with this.

ok. Despite what the psychic said.
If YOU FELT it was in any shape way or form negative. In any manner. If it made you uncomfortable. Then know this. Our guides, would not do anything to us that would make us feel anything negative in anyway.
Guides are kind, wise, spirits that want the best for us. So. Just remember that.
And. So you said your new to all this, well il tell you. Its really an adventure (some might say) the hardest and best most beautiful things about becoming in tune with your abilities. Is dealing with them.
The advice I give you is, trust yourself, figure out your emotional energies, (for example, a girl feels sad, you look at her and suddenly you feel that) that is what I mean by figuring out your emotional energies.
Same goes for thoughts you get, energies that are none emotional that you sense, (for example you walk somewhere and think and feel, ehh there's a bad person, I think they drink etc, I think that house has bad energy etc.) all that. Focus on it, and itl simply develop over time.
You see, what is really something to think about is, you as a psychic can help people in variety of ways. To see someone crying letting go off emotions because you simply choose to sit down talk to them, relate to them (because you sense what theyr going through) DOES SO MUCH GOOD for the world and you. (and believe me, expect people to cry when you help them, as you may too)

Focus on the good, always. Never as a psychic bother thinking negative. Why? Easy, because all it does it cloud everyones day and yours.
Never limit yourself, you are infinite, have confidence in all that you can do. Which, haha is A LOT.
Your abilities will improve, youll develop new ones, but most importantly remember that ALTHOUGH you help people, you must remember to CARE for yourself. Some will no believe you, some will be convinced psychics are evil. Just trust yourself. There's a reason they still think the way they do. They arent ready to ascend there spiritual energy, as you are.
I said all this with the intent that youll gain benefit out of this, I hope you do.
Well, that's all I gotta say. Have a great journey.

Thank you InjuredAngelHeero and Confused13 for your advice! 😁

Meditation is the most suggested method, but as long as you don't ignore what you see and hear it you will become more aware of your gifts. Your Guardian will always be around you, he is what keeps unwanted spirits away, and you safe.

As far as helping your friend, I can't say not to I like to try ghost hunting, but I would advise to let someone a little more familar with their gifts and spirits deal with the woman.

i have the same things happen to me, I always hear a little girl say my nme, and even sometimes I see her out of the corner of my eye! And to develope your psychic abtilities more, you can meditate, that is a very affective way. And just talking to the ghost in your friends basement would be affective, you can ask it questions first, so it would feel more comfortable. Then tell explain the things you want to the ghost. I am a psychic medium, and I always hear and see ghosts. But I only see them, or there shadows in the corner of my eye. But anyway, I hope I have helped!