Strong Energy Effecting Lights, Tvs Around Me

It is great to find a website where I can read experiences just like mine and feel normal!

I have noticed for a long time now that lights change around me when I lived at home my parents always had to change the light bulbs in the house as they would blow out when I was around a lot of the time it was in an argument, when I was mad and intense conversation a lot of the times in my bedroom, lounge room I was more angry then I was in a bad relationship and noticed this then, also at night I would walk past the tv and it would turn on and off at first I thought it was a freaky coincidence.

Now I'm less angry and in a happy relationship I live with my partner who is great, I don't make light bulbs blow anymore but they always flicker around me and my partner has even noticed it too with the tv the channel will change by itself when I'm around and my partner says it only happens when I am there, it always happens when we are in an intense conversation about something, he even jokes if I can change the channel to ESPN! Lol

Sometimes light will flicker when I am talking to someone about someone who has past or something spiritual, or just in an intense conversion where I am either frustrated or concentrating a lot, I find when I focus on the light it stops? I have had similar things with computers freezing, my mobile sending weird messages to people I had never sent and I at work, I work with medical grade lasers for laser hair removal there have been a few times while I am using the laser where it completely shuts down, and the fuse blows and needs repairs and when it gets fixed there is no explanation for it, once again the times it has happened I have been in deep thought or in la la land in my own world it's freaky but I'm getting used to it now,

I've have been told by a physic it's just my strong energy, psychic energy and have also been told with the lights could be spirit guides, I would love to get some feedback, thoughts and explanations from everyone!;)