Are Dreams about Someone Dying Premonitions?

I think this might help your fear a little... Death in dreams doesn't always mean death. It can also mean... Well here is the definition of death in a dream...

- Does not signify death. Means to remove or be removed from a situation, emotions or circumstances. May or may not involve the dead person.

I hope that helps you. That somewhat sounds like your situation. 😊

Do you mind telling us what the poem was... Or if you could post it that would be lovely.

I actually predicted 9/11 in an art piece I did for my highschool's literary magazine. I have the magazine today. It is a black and white piture of the twin towers. And people falling from the sky all tangled up like spaghetti. One guy sitting on a tower holding another by the food. I made sure to include the sun in it, but placed in a rare place, under the buliding. It was a Sunny day that Tuesday. I've lived in Ny most of my life and never got to visit the towers, so even physically, the towers were never a part of my memory.
I looked at the drawing years after, before I realized I had predicted it. The poem I placed next to the picture, is eeriely depicting the whole event.

My mother turn to me the night before she died and said what a lovely vail you wearing were did you get it. What does this mean

When I was 13 in 2001. I had a dream about my cousin Amanda dying in car wreck. I was so upset about this dream that I couldn't sleep for days. Then every other night I would have the same dream over and over again until I hit 16 in 2004 then my dreams stopped. I didn't have another one until 2 months before September of 04. I had the same dream. On september 20th 2004 my cousin Amanda died in a car wreck just the way I dreamed about it. Is this just coucindce or is it something else.

I had a weird dream also, I was at a dock in the back of someones mansion and me and my brother we're in formal clothes. The ocean water was flowing over deck so it was toughing our feet. We were talking about sharks when I told my brother let's go down the deck over there so I ran and raced the waves when I looked back and noticed my brother standing there and a man in a tuxedo staring at me He told me not to jump in the water because a dead wolf was in there. It was to late I had jumped in and the water turned into an amber tone. My black shaw got tangled over my head and I was struggling to swim, I finally broke free and starred at the wolf who was surrounded by a bubble of blood. I could see the dock's edge above me since I was in the corner of the dock below. I swam up but stopped when I saw a clear hand reach for me with a black shadow looming on the deck. I reached forward for the hand but couldn't reach it in time because my alarm clock went off. =(

I had dream that someone, like a fat guy was sitting on me while I was sleep and I couldn't move or breath. But then I fought hard to wake up and then I did, man it was scary. It happen two times in a week. I think death was tell me something or what.

The bad dreams I have come to true. The dreams I have come true in real life. My dreams they tell me about everything. If you had a bad dream but no other dreams like that have come true then there nothing to worry about. I have loads of dreams which are bad which come true. I even dream of a near death experience then in real life that story in my dream repeats itself. It something telling me.

Wow, you sound like me when I started with my permonitions not to long ago. I'm now at this second am too freak out because some of my dreams aren't good, always bad and terrible things going wrong. I have dreams that come to life and I don't realize it until it happens. 50 % chance my dreams go to life and I'm scared the one I DONT want to come true will. I'm freak out too, just to let you know theirs people at there just like you looking for help well as answers. I'll keep you updated with mine dreams too.=]

I will go from my own experiences and say that your father is in danger of dieing from some cause in the future and this is what you are being told in a dream which is a look into the future.
Yes you should write your drams down, time and date them and as you go through the day you may suddenly get a thought about your father and pick up more on how he will die.
Keep in mind these are predictions and looks into the future and if we can reach people whom we are dreaming about sometimes we can save them from an accident or a medical problem if we can get through to them and have them take action.
In your fathers case if he drinks and is fighting with the woman who knows what could happen during one of those fights.
And of course if he drinks and drives it could be from an Accident.
As you get these premonitions and looks into the future you will have to think about the people you know and analyze the dreams and see if you can pick up how the death will occur then perhaps you and they can take steps to stop it.
I have in the past received death looks into the future for at least two of my realtives and I told them what I had seen and told them where they need to be careful and when they were on the Highway and such an accident lay in their path they recalled what I had said and took quick action which may have saved their lives since they are still here and told me that they remembered what I said and they think this caused them to react in the right way.