Night Terrors Maybe Attacks

I'm 23 and have a baby of 14 months. I have been having stuff happen since 2005 and I just don't know when it will stop. All I would like is a little explanation or something from somebody to help me understand because with time it just keeps going plus now I have a baby and he wakes up crying and scared. It all started in 2005 I live here in Ft. Lauderdale Florida. We had gotten a really bad hurricane and that's when it started fall of 2005. It could have been because me and my friend at that time we watching scary movies and playing around talking stupid sense about ghosts can't do nothing and we were not scared and I tried to prove it but whatever is going on I quit. I had really bad memories in that house and I would never want to live there again. I was like 18 when it started. When the hurricane hit a few days later I was on the couch sleeping and all of a sudden the top to our attic fell and broke so we had a hole there it freaked me out so bad but after that, that's when it started that same night I went back to dreaming and my dreams were no longer the same I was on sofa and my dream was 2 I was laying exactly like I was in my dream everything something was climbing up the stairs and stood up I could not remember the voice but just the words and it was telling me look at me look at me and poking my ear I had my hand covering my eyes so I couldn't see it got mad when I told it no then I woke up when I woke up I was exactly the same place as my dream had ended and to come to find out my ear was so red like my dream was actually real. I never slept there again I went to sleep in my mom's room because I felt safe but I felt something at the door but I went to sleep. Days went by and at weeks time went by I didn't have another dream but the door down stairs always seems to slam anywhere from 9-9:30 in the morning and there was nobody there. I never thought anything about it. My dreams came back and they were weird and I have been afraid to sleep. I would dream that I was exactly gain sleeping where I was dreaming this time there were like bodies that kept coming in my door 3 at a time but could not get to me could not pass my bed foot and I was held still in my bed and I could not move all I could do was watch them try. This dream was a recurring a lot of nights and every time it scared me because it seemed like I was not in my body. As time went on it quit like 1 month or 2. I Was happy and forgotten all about it then 1 morning around 9 I woke up being chocked I felt something around my neck and I couldn't move it was like 3 minutes before I could move after I was let go to get the hell out of my room. I was so scared I ended up telling my mom but she just told me I'm making it up. While all his stuff was going on in my life I wasn't having an easy life it was a very challenging time for my mom to. My dreams came back but this time they came back horrifying 1 night I cried at 3 am for my mom to take me to church my dream was the worst it had ever been I was again in the way I was actual sleeping something unknown came in to my room it was trying to possess me I was fighting and it felt like I was losing I cried to god to help me I cried to be able to wake up and it was getting blacker something told me to look at the light I looked away and I was awake that was when I began to cry and tell my mom I'm never sleeping in my room again that she has to take me to church. Thankfully that was my last bad dream in that house. I moved out with my friend thought it was over and thought I would have a good life. I kept getting sick but you know and having really bad luck but that's just how some people have it we moved out to a 2/1 duplex WITH CARPET. Carpet you can hear footsteps so we thought. At night sometimes I would hear footsteps enter my room and stop 3 or 4 steps from my bed it would scare the hell out of me and I would hide under my covers thinking it might help. Since of all this has happened I had to sleep with some light for comfort and we are now in 2006 when I am hearing footsteps and everything so ii know it hasn't quit it actually followed me. I had to watch my mom's cats 1 night because she had went in to the hospital for her reasons and I was afraid to come back to that house. I was calling people and everything it got time to go to sleep and it felt very weird I remember it felt like if something was in the house. When I went to go to sleeps my mom's cats were running in to my room it was funny but weird they usually all stay apart well I turned the light off and I got bad Goosebumps it wasn't cold in the house and had a bad vibe something was there that I couldn't see it made me grab my stuff and run out of the house like a chicken. I went back to my place and never went back for awhile but all I remember seeing was the blackness in my mom's apartment and feeling like something was just staring at me and the blinds had moved I'm guessing my imagination and was the cats running to see where I had gone. Well time had passed by nothing happen every once in a while I heard sounds from the footprints 2006 was gone 2007 has come and now 1 day me and my roommate were talking 1 night and she wanted to ask me a personal question. I did not see this coming... She asked me if I had heard footsteps at night that she hears them and they stop by her bed. I was in state of fear. I told her yes and I explained everything that has happened she thinks it followed me and that we needed to bless the house. We never did but we also didn't pay any attention to it. Later on I ended up moving out I had gotten really sick and to the point of I was scared that I was going to be anorexic because I found myself at the point of not wanting to swallow my food bad times. I left went back to my moms and nothing happened. I was extremely happy for a while nothing ever happened. Later on in 2007 like in September almost 2 years after the incidents happened I finally got back up on my feet was happy again I got my own apartment I was kind of scared living by myself since it was my first time but everything was fine I meet my husband in 2007 and a few months we were living together and all of a sudden it came back. I was sleeping and I held my big stuffed puppy dog that my husband had gave me and I was woken up startled that something was grabbing me it was rough and I turned around and couldn't find nothing you would think since the choking incident I would never sleep again on my side so I called him and he told me to pray and everything would be ok so we are about to go in to 2008 actually was a good year not much really happened we moved in with his parents cause I quit my job and he got fired so I couldn't pay all by myself finding another job. In 2008 though we did have this conversation about my experiences and he told me he believes in it too, that he has had stuff happened to him like something pin him to his bed. 2009 just a few bad dreams here and there no contact just noises here and there I gotten pregnant in 2008 so it was a good year. 2009 in June I had to be put on bed rest and gave birth to my son June 24. Our relationship was strained and everything but still my dreams were only little I did not feel grabbing hostile on nothing just in body form dreaming even though it scared me I have a son now its different. Now we are in 2010 now that I am almost living on my own me and my husband are trying to work thing out but now this bad stuff has started to happen again and now I'm afraid for my son. I had a dream again this time I was talking to the thing that has been bothering me and I just got so mad at it I was cussing him out and everything bad mistake because now I'm constantly having the feeling like I am getting watched when I had that dream my son woke up crying to. I have this feeling it's in the bathroom just watching waiting until I'm asleep. My dog goes in there and just barks and growls and I have no idea why it's at the tub. But that's were I get the feeling. I can't take this feeling now I have never gotten the Goosebumps that bad since the day I had to look after my moms cats. In these days there has been no air on and I have been with these gooses bumps for hours and the feeling like something is touching my neck every now and then on top of my dog barking at bathroom it's just weird and I want it to stop. Maybe it is my imagination. My husband had something bad happen to him last weekend he was sleeping my son was with him and he felt the bed move like somebody just gotten in to bed with him it grabbed his hand and started to whisper to him he had woken up told me about it the next day and told me that my son also woke up crying and scared. So the next day he told me about it and now every time I pass my bathroom I get Goosebumps so bad that day I had spent 5 hours with them I could not go to sleep I had slept with light on at finally I got to sleep my son had woke up at 5 crying so bad he was afraid I heard him sniffling and everything I went to put him back down in his crib no he cried like somebody was hurting him I picked him up gave him love and held him and gave him a bottle and he didn't even drink his bottle he fell asleep in my arms I put him back down when he was sleeping. I now have the dreams again, I hear a door opening nobody else is here I feel very scared from my bathroom I feel like it watches me as I sleep because it has a perfect view I'm just now really scared because I haven't felt like this is in awhile and don't want nothing happening to my baby at night I feel like I see a dark shadow but I'm sure it is just my imagination no physical contact has been made for 2 years just dreams but since I'm being violent with my dreams telling it off and go back to hell I just don't want it to get violent with me or maybe it wait to do something if at all its something. Please help explain to me