Too Many Coincidences

I am new to this website and I think it is nice to know that there are people around my age who have psychic abilities. Since I was 13 I always wanted to be psychic tell the future and all the other things that came along the lines of that. Now I'm 17 and for 4 years I tried lucid dreaming (which was successful once) astral projection, telepathy, and telekinesis. Overall I never got anywhere but just continued trying.

But recently I been getting a series of coincidences. One day I was at home and I just thought of a friend of my mother thinking, "She hasn't called for so long I wonder what's up?". So I continued on with my day as usual then around 8 in the evening the woman called my mother saying she hasn't called in so long. My mom told me about it and I wanted to tell her that I was thinking about her today (my mother doesn't believe in anything psychic she thinks its evil or magic and she hates that stuff) but decided I wasn't going to tell her because it was just a coincidence. For almost three months I have been having these coincidences but I ignored them thinking its just a coincidence.

But a few weeks ago I was sitting in my room it was in the afternoon it was a Sunday so the maid didn't come she had to go to church. But she was going to come on Monday so I was just thinking "the maid was working for 2 weeks straight shes probably not going to come tomorrow she needs a break". The next day she didn't come. I was shocked thinking I was having to many coincidences happen. Then a few days ago I thought about another one of my moms friends I thought that woman hasn't called for a while wonder how shes doing, then a few hours passed and she called. I was like "omg" it was unbelievable how many coincidence I had in less than 3 months. Then just yesterday I was in my reading class and I just thought I bet the teacher is going to pick me next" and what do you know he picks me. I was so used to the "coincidences" that just when the thought popped into my head I started reading the next paragraph so I wouldn't make any mistakes because I was so sure I was going to read next. I also have been having so many deja vu's lately. It happened almost 7 times in February alone and before I would have deja vu once every 2 months or so. So does this mean that I have some psychic ability and how can I control it because it just comes anytime. Is being psychic hereditary? Because as much as my mom hates this stuff I think she has precognition because every time something bad happens in our lives she cries and says "I saw that in a dream". My mom believes if you have a bad dream you should never say it or it will come true. She told she has had over 40 something dreams that come true. My mom also has like this sixth sense. She has a feeling of something bad before it happens. Like this one time a relative of ours came to visit and the moment she saw him she said I have a bad feeling about this man. It ended up he put a virus in our computer that nearly shut it down completely. Could some of my moms ability have passed on to me somehow?