I will begin in 1994 when I was first contacted by my brother-in-law who died of a drug overdose. I would hear things, feel his presence, see his image on my sister in laws TV, and I also saw a wreath fly off the wall. He was present with me for 13 years.
Now, my cousin who was killed my a drunk driver on Cct 26, 2008, has contacted me several times. I see mists, hear music faintly that is not playing in my house, my cabinet doors slam in the middle of the night, her presence is all around me, electrical things suddenly stop working, bright light in my eye when I was under my covers asleep, smoke curling down from a ceiling fan to the floor, footsteps; shall I go on?
I have been told by another medium that I have strong ectoplasm and medium abilities. I can sense things, hear and smell things that aren't present, and I truly believe she is contacting me and other friends and family she is close too. One of my family members actually saw her in the bedroom, an apparition I assume. We are not afraid at all, and enjoy her coming to visit us.
Help, I would like to hone my medium abilities if I truly have them, and I feel I do. I am a saved Christian person who truly believes in God and I would never engage in anything evil or dark spirited.