What About Destiny?

I know that most people don't believe in destiny nowadays, I didn't. From all the books I've read and all the stories I've heard, I've always been taught that I can shape my own future.

Although I don't understand my ability very much, I've seen my life and I know a lot more about destiny than I'm supposed to. The way destiny works is to shape your feelings so it 'seems' that you are shaping it on your own.

To prove my point, one of my experiences is car accidents on my way to a lesson. It was just a normal day, but once I got in my car prepared to go to another class, I saw car accidents from the third eye that I obtained from meditation. But I didn't bother since it may happen somewhere else. But as the car reached the highway 5 minutes later, there was traffic. The reason: there was a car accident involving two taxis at the bottom of the bridge. This happened once more before I reached my class.

I have considered that maybe it was just a prediction (as some of my friends told me), but there was a lot more to it than just 'car accidents'. I don't actually dream about the future like most psychics, more like of a particular person. I don't know who she is; all I know is that she leads a normal life. I'm absolutely conscious throughout my dream about her, only when I get too tired I black-out, usually in the middle of the dream.

I have taken tests for different psychic abilities: Scoring high in ESP but not in any other future telling or remote controlling tests.

I want to state the fact that being psychic doesn't necessarily have to see the future or see auras, it can also mean able to understand something out of the world.