Looking For Help

Hi Tara! I have been off the air for some time and your request for help has only now come to my notice. I sincerely hope you read my reply.
I am positive that your husband is still around you and the family, that is why you can sometimes smell his scent. It would appear that although he has passed over he is earth bound and has not left the earth plane. To give you more insight I earnestly request you to read my blogs, especially "Inauguration of a rescue circle". This will answer your questions. Read them at: benenbabs.blogspot.com
I would suggest that you join a Spiritualist Church in your area. You could receive a message from him during the service.
I trust you will receive the peace you are looking for.
God bless.

Hello Tara,

The most important thing I hope to get across to you is to enjoy what you can the way he feels when he comes to you, the way he also visits the children and how they are aware of him. Do not get hung up on believing he is not succeeding and somehow you have to find a way to comprehend some message he is unable to get to you. He clearly is showing you he loves you and wants you all to know he lives on and did not end.

When my mother died she came to me and I felt her essence stronger than I had ever before. It was unmistakable. When we are little children we are not consciously aware and do not have the experience and knowledge to understand. We just know and take things for granted. Gradually as we grow up and discover the world we are distracted from our senses and are drawn away from those who have been closest to us. This was experiencing her pure essence with the knowledge and awareness of my adult years.

Your husband does not necessarily have some great message your are unable to receive. He may be accomplishing his objective by just coming to you and the children and exchanging experiences with you. You could just enjoy his presence and go with it. However if you get anxious with concern you are missing something important you will miss the opportunity to fully experience him.

There are psychics, who do something specifically referred to as mediumship or who identify themselves as "mediums"...these are people with an ability to hear and communicate more directly with people who have passed on. They can relay words that you might not be receptive to. Unfortunately there are also many frauds so if you can try more than one and not take anyone as Gospel / The Ultimate Truth you could benefit.

Whatever you do, try to relax and go with the experience when your husband visits. He can communicate in your dreams but many times we do not recall dreams in detail. Other times a dream just leaves a strong lingering feeling. That can be the message just as well as hearing words.

Hi Tara
Sorry for your husband and your family. Sometimes, I can see some died people but I can see only if I see his face. If my angel permiss me to enter in relation with your husband, I will give you what he gives to me. No money. It is not my speciality (I have some visions of future, also prophetic visions). If you post a photography, you will be secure that nobody can use it (for example, make some treatment of picture, etc).
God bless you

Your husband is reaching out to you by using others. You ask why he does not reach out to you. But he has with leaving a scent. You sound as if your grief is blocking you. It is affecting your body, mind and emotions (the 3 lower chakras). I encourage you to ask for confirmation of what ever messages comes to you by family/children.

Best wishes

Hi there Tara,

First, I want to say that you have my deepest sympathy in regard to the loss of your husband ~ your story really struck a chord with me. Secondly, I think the two previous posters, AnneV and DarriuxDarkk, offered some good advice. Also, I wanted to add a few comments of my own, and a couple of suggestions here.

Dealing with overwhelming loss and trying to cope with daily anxiety from losing someone you love, all by yourself, can really tear your world apart. After we lose someone, feeling lonely, scared, and stressed-out are just some of the symptoms of the depression we go through.

Unfortuantely, being a parent and having to deal with grieving, along with raising young children is going to be the toughest challenge of your life. It can feel like a dark cloud hanging around, that never allows the sunshine in. But here's the thing: it's important not to let all the painful emotions and anxiety take over your life. I know that it's easier said than done sometimes, but right now it's so crucial for you to connect with someone who has gone through, or someone who is going through, the same situation that you are dealing with. Aside from seeking help from a counselor, or a psychic medium, would you consider connecting with a support group? Due to Covid-19, it's hard to meet up with groups locally, but there are support groups online that can offer services and help through group messaging, group chat, and personal email if needed. It's as easy as getting on social media, and searching for 'grief support groups'.

A few months ago, I lost both my husband and my mother to cancer, within the same week. I'm a mother of three children; 2 teenagers and a 9 year old. I'm sure you can understand exactly what I was going through for the first few weeks, so I won't go into detail about that. Even though I was coping the best way I could on my own, I still felt alone and confused about my future for me and my kids. Then one day, my sister suggested to me that our family and my in-laws get together on group chat every week. Her thinking behind this idea was so that my children would feel that their family was there to support them. At first, I didn't really like the idea because I knew that many of my family members didn't get along with eachother. To make a long story short, I invited everybody on both sides of the family to join us, no matter if they got along with eachother or not. At first it was a little awkward, but slowly over the course of a few weeks everybody came together to lend support for the sake of my children. It turned out to be one of the best things that could've ever happened to us ~ we have found a way to cope with our loss through support, and we now have some inner peace.

I still struggle with sleepless nights from time to time, and I still have a good daily cry for my husband and mom, but I no longer feel totally alone and anxious like I used to.

Tara, I hope you will consider some of the suggestions you have been given here at YGS. Please keep us posted on how you are doing, if possible.

Wishing you and your family all the best ❤ LightMight

hi, agree on Annev. Most of the time the deceased can interact with the living through a dream. I believe on that one.

My brother passed away 7 years ago. We were close and it really hit us hard as a family. There was one point that I had a dream about him. He was smiling and happy as if trying to say he is ok now. He was dressed in white and he left just like that. I believe on that dream he was telling me that he is at peace and happy so we wouldn't have to worry about him. That gave us a sense of peace as well.

If you feel like your husband is trying to reach out to you, try to have a good sleep and maybe he will visit you in your dreams. If you are religious, try to offer prayers for his soul so he can rest.

God bless.

Your husband may have reached out to the other relatives to reconcile past issues. My step mother passed a few decades ago and the person she "met" after she passed was me, her step-daughter whom she had been quite abusive to, not her own children. When a person passes, they do a life review and he may have seen something from their perspective (not from his while alive) that warranted a visit. He is all too aware of your feelings and he may be coming to you in the most common format-- dreams. Try and maximize sleep (hard, I'm sure, with young children), but if you're to have a visit, 98% chance it will come via a dream.

As for paying a psychic medium, I think you're better off seeking out a well known one. This is a psychic site for sharing stories an such, not a general platform for promoting professional psychic medium readings.

Anne