Dream Telepathy And Other Experiences

I am 19 years old and I've been having some weird things happen to me. I have a few stories to share. I've posted a different story of mine in the past, but this is just a follow up.

Recently, I was at my boyfriend's house andI was taking a nap. Now, he and his family believe in the paranormal and know that there has been some ghost activity in their house for a long time. However, the ghost that they knew about was a little boy and an old man. But while I was taking a nap, I had an out of body experience. I was sensing that there was someone walking in and out of his room, but I asked later and no one ever did. Everyone was downstairs. Then I sensed or "saw" a teenage boy wearing a white shirt and red basketball shorts standing right next to my head. I thought it was my boyfriend so I reached out to grab him, but then saw the little boy and a dark bald man figure with red eyes staring at me. Then I felt like I was about to fall off the bed, but it was falling out Of My body, but I caught myself. But who was this ghost? I've had OBE's before, so I know this was definitely one of them, but why so randomly? And my boyfriend told me that recently he's seen this dark figure in his dreams too. It's really starting to creep me out.

Next, last night I had a vision Of My boyfriend laying down in his bed missing me and he was holding a stuffed monkey that I have him for valentines day. I then told him that, expecting that I was just imagining it, and he said he did exactly that.

Lastly, last night I had a really weird dream. My mother was in it, and I haven't seen my mom in a few years. In the past, I had a restraining order on her because things were too hard for me growing up in a bad environment with her. She has bipolar and schitzophrenia. Anyways, my past wasn't very great with her, but sometimes I feel like she tries to connect to me through my dreams. I haven't talked to her in a while. But I know that if I'm "psychic" then it's from her side of the family. She's told me that before, because I asked, but it definitely cannot be from my dad's side. Her side is more open minded. She does palm reading and my sister is a gypsy. My dad's side however, is not very open minded. But I live with him and it's hard to talk to my mom about these things and she won't be very clear, like she's trying to hide it or something, hence why I am posting this story. Anyways, back to my dream. I've had many dreams before that felt like my mom was checking up On me. This morning I woke up with bad heartburn and when I was in my dream, I saw her and she wanted to come inside with me to see me. (I was in my room standing and looking out the window). I told her no, I'm sick. She then somehow showed up later and I had to approach her and ask her why she was here. She said she wanted to talk to my step mom, but she didn't want my dad to know. And that's all I remember. But it felt real. I've had other dreams where I've felt connected to my mom and my boyfriend before. The was one where it felt like he was really there in my bed cuddling with me and in the morning he said he had the same dream. So, my questions are, is dream telepathy really possible? Am I actually psychic or sensitive? How do I further these abilities and control them? Will they increase over time?