Just for a little back ground, my granny dreamed of bad things that were going to happen. She always knew before a death, a wreck, a break-in, etc. I myself found myself dreaming dreams that were coming true last year. I had about 3 dreams that came true.
In one of my dreams I was given a phone number. The next day my neighbor, whom I had not yet met, gave me his phone number. It was the same number, but it was off by one digit. My best friend was named Randy. We spent most every day and lots of nights together, hanging out, partying and such. I had not been going to his house for about two weeks because I started working a lot of over-time. He stopped by my place a few times in those weeks to check on me. I had a pre-paid cell phone that had been out of minutes. I added minutes to it on April 22nd, 2008. In a few minutes, the phone beeped and lit up. It showed that I had a few voicemails. I just thought, ok, I'll wait until later to check them.
The next day at work, when my shift was almost over at work, I had a very compelling feeling to check the voicemail. About the 2nd or 3rd voicemail was Randy. He said, "hey, girl! Call me back on this number. It's an emergency, for real. Hurry!" It was 3:30 pm when I checked the voicemail. I didn't think much of it, because the voicemail had been left maybe a week earlier. When I got home that evening, at about 4:10 that evening, one of my neighbors (who knew Randy well), approached me and told me very quietly that Randy had just passed away less than an hour ago. The voicemail immediately came to my mind and the urgency in which I was compelled to listen to it at that certain time and then the message that I heard. I realized that I had just listened to his plea for help as he was dying or right after he passed. I didn't dream of him immediately after, maybe because I drank with his family and friends as we suffered through our loss. But I have dreamed of him almost every night since then.
Today the thought of learning to contact the dead came into my mind. I got on-line and googled it. The first link I chose was an article on John Edwards, the guy from Crossing Over. The same second that I clicked the link, my tv started staticing and I about jumped out of my skin. It statics just on the channel it was on when I clicked the link and it is still doing it. The static is at about 1/2 a minute to one minute intervals... Sometimes not so long. The weather is good and like I said, it started at the exact second I clicked the link to John Edwards' page. (This really did send a bit of a chill through me).
Any thoughts about this. Has anyone else had a situation like this? Should I continue to research contacting the dead? Anyone think these are these merely coincidences? I would like advice and opinions and any info about contacting the dead, good and bad experiences.
I'm not sure how old your daughter is. I'm thinking that in time she will come around. I'm looking at my life and how it was growing up. My mother and I are much different than one another as well. I'm more like my father and they didn't stay together long. She always tells me I have a horseshoe up my bu-t. I think I had some resentment with her as well. However, since I've gotten older, I value family more than the stupid things that happen. I try to forget and move on. And yes, there are times when our personalities still clash, but she is my mother and I will always love her. Just give her time to grow and let her know every chance you get that you love her.
I hope this is somewhat helpful for you.