The Reoccurring Fire

I hope you all don't mind, but I'm just going to jump right in. I have seen spirits on and off most of my life. But it really started when I was 12. (I'm 16) I see most of the spirits in my dreams. Now, at first I thought I just had a good imagination, until I verified (through death, birth, and slave records) what I saw in my dream one night. I frequently see people I've never met, end up in strange houses, and most of the time, it's like I'm a bystander in whatever situation is occurring. The past few nights I have had a dream of my house catching on fire. My great uncle (who is not in good Health at all) told me during every dream, "Don't go out the door, you won't make it. Get yourself out. Go out the window. As if this dream wasn't already disturbing, last night, I dreamed of what I assume was a past tragedy. There was a huge house, it was like a bed and breakfast, they rented rooms out. They had their daughter locked in the attic room as a punishment for "being with" a man. Somehow a fire broke out, they got everyone out safely, except a young black boy. (I think he may have been a slave, but I'm not sure) after a pitiful attempt to get the boy out, every one gave up and watch him and the house burn. This really disturbs me, mostly because many years ago my great aunt lost 4 of her children and her husband due to a house fire on Christmas Eve (which is tomorrow) and I feel like I need to know more. There is a reason this keeps happening, what I don't yet know. Any help would be greatly appreciated.