Comments for Advice For Psychics And Mediums: Page 2

We all have the power to make a change, to create our reality, to make an impact in the world. Accept that some things can be changed, while other events cannot be changed, no matter what we do, because either it is fate and needs to happen or because the other people involved do not believe or they want it to happen for whatever reason. Work on helping those who want help. Change only what you can. Release and let go of all the rest. Do not take the weight of the world upon your shoulders. Trust me, I have tried and it is much too heavy of a burden for one person.

(in reply to souloflight's question)

If you feel you have a psychic ability, whether a little or alot, then you do. It is not your imagination. That is similar to brushing everything off as just a coincidence.

You mentioned how it has decreased recently. That is quite normal. It is not necessarily that it has decreased but that the other times it may have increased. When you need it most, and when you use it more, it will increase for you. If we were always strongly psychic we would never have time to get to the gym! Even now I have to tell the spirits to wait until after I finish watching a movie.

(in reply to MissPenny's question)

Do NOT email a person you sense you cannot trust. Use your psychic abilities, people!

Guide, Spirit, or Demon? How to tell the difference... At the bottom of this story page click on "Read previous comments". There you will find many tips I posted on how to communicate with your Guides and how to make sure they are in fact your Guides.

If you are still not certain what is contacting you then describe to me what yours look like and what they say and do.

(in reply to SoutherAtHeart's question)

One of the things I love about this site is the feedback and posts from people who have differing levels of knowledge and background and experience. Thank you for sharing your post. It was very inspiring to read from someone who has found a way to live with their abilities in their day-to-day life. Gives the rest of us (such as myself) something to look forward to.

Wow, that was a great post and very informative. Thank you so much for your input and caring. It means so much that you care and put forth the effort to let people know that. I love your guidance and reading your posts because you are so positive.
Knowing that sometimes you just cannot change things and that people don't want to listen or just can't accept a psychic prediction helps us to understand that we are not alone. Its hard and can feel like we are isolated and freakish but there is comfort in having people that can understand us.
Don't you also think its important to tell people that do and can listen to a psychic that they have the power to change things or at least affect the situation somewhat? Isn't it true that there is an order to things as well and if we can understand that order and the lessons that must be learned we can alter things, change them or speed up a process that was once keeping us stuck?
Thank you again Oracle01, your help is appreciated and comforting.

My email is billadakid [at] yahoo.com

Thank you so much. Quick contact would be greatly appreciated.

hello. I came to this website searching for help or guidance or something. I need to know if the things I experience is just an over active imagination or if it is something real. I get all sorts of feelings, premonitions, etc... I've seen spirits in the past, but in the past few years I've seen them less, but could still sense something. Sometimes I'm overwhelmed with a feeling about things, for example, when I read a comment you left for someone, my eyes welled up in tears and I felt like I had to contact you. I don't know if you can help me, but I need to know if I really have some sort of gift or if I'm just imagining things. Please contact me if you think you can help. Taniawarf [at] hotmail.com thanks

Oracle101, please contact me if you can. I'm offering teaching similar to what you describe to all and sundry; it is entirely possible that we could help each other.

Could you repost your post about telling the difference between spirits and guides?

You are NOT a freak. You are NOT alone. There are many of us, just like you. Whenever you feel like an outcast remember that you have friends here. Ignore ignorance.

Your abilities weaken if you do not use it or do not want it. When you accept it and welcome it as a gift and try to use it more it WILL increase again.

(This is in reply to Austin's question.)

Make sure your Guides are truly Guides and not Spirits. There is a big difference. Follow my tips on how to tell the difference. If you need me to repost it let me know.

(This is in reply to Southern's question.)

(My previous post was in reply to Kp's question.)

Asking your Guides for answers is one of the smartest things you will ever do in your life. Start by asking them for messages on what you need to do next. They will often have you research certain subjects. Go to a large bookstore and ask which way to walk. They will answer left, right, etc. Follow the directions. Listen for "stop", "up", "down", top shelf, etc. They will direct you to subjects and books on that subject. Take one step at a time, and they will show you the way. Also be patient. They know WHEN and WHERE you need to go, and WHY. They know WHAT you need to do and why. They know what you have and what your destiny is. They know WHO you are, and who you are to become and why. Trust them and listen to them. Just remember to make sure they are your Guides.

How to make people believe:

It is challenging trying to warn people of a premonition you had.

The best ways to make them believe:

1. Tell them that most of your visions almost always comes true (especially if yours always end up in the news like mine do).

2. Keep the focus on them rather than on you. Convince them that you care about what happens to them and that you hope to prevent it. (Rather than talking all about your abilities and how awkward your life is as a psychic. If you seem to be uncomfortable with it, then they will be too.)

3. Tell them you hope you are WRONG. (People have ego. They want to be right and also worry you just want to be right, so they hope to prove you wrong by not listening to your warning and going ahead with it anyways. So telling them that you hope to be wrong will scare them into believing.)

4. People like physical proof. Sometimes a business card stating you are a psychic helps convince them.

5. Tell them something about them that you sense. Read them. Then they will believe you more. (SHOW that you are psychic.)

6. Give references from people who have witnessed your abilities, or just mention those many friends and relatives of yours who have witnessed it. (Hearing that other people have seen your abilties will help others believe.)

7. Show them the notes you wrote down about the vision/dream. (Again more physical proof.)

8. Have someone else tell them about your vision. (This 3rd party person will work as your reference.)

(This is in reply to carri's question.)

I will eventually get around to creating my own psychic blog or website soon so I can give free advice to others, but for now if you have questions, post them here, or give your email so I can email you.

It is easiest if you post your own story on this blog website so I can reply on your own story (this helps save space on my own story page to leave room for more comments from others.)

(This is in reply to Polmog's question.)

Thinking of your Spirit Guide, and sensing them, might make you feel all kinds of emotions, such as nervousness, excitement, peacefulness, etc. Goosebumps included. Never will Guides make you feel cold, scared, threatened, or overly worried. Although communication with Guides can create confusion, frustration, and the occasional tear, since it is like any relationship in which it takes time to understand each other.

(This is in reply to Jessica's question.)

It is not unusual to be visited by a deceased loved one in a dream. It can mean many different things. Sometimes it means you miss them, were thinking about them recently, they want to reassure you they are okay, they are used as a messenger in your dream, or they are in the dream to represent someone else. For example, when I dream a premontion dream the victim might use a person I know to symbolize a particular person in their own life who is similar to that person I know in some way. Also, a deceased relative of mine has been in some of my dreams as a messenger to show me important facts I need to notice within the dream.

(This is in response to Lotsofsmiley's question)

Oracle101
Yes I agree with you again. In the past I had many encounter of heavenly angels being visited my dreams in the past.Ive'd typed it to my profile so that you can read my dreams about them etc. Good day to all 😊

So you meditate with your eyes closed or open?
Southern At Heart

Hello, My name is Austin. I'm 14 years old. I know I have abilties (some of them are confirmed on my page) But when I was young I would tell my dad I seen a ghost so he would beat me. After a year of the beatings I think I made a wall so spirits couldn't contact me. My main power I have discorved is empathy. And I love it. But I'm young, I'm a loner and I have been questioning my own powers which I think is weakening them. Can you please contact me? I have a msn Austin.emo[at].com (I would love to have a teacher or mentor) I hope you read this today and can get back to me A.S.A.P. Thank you for your time - Austin

Hi, after reading your story, you sound like you really have learned how to use your gift. I am a young medium and I really would like to strengthen my gift. I have guides, but they confuse me. I'm not sure who they are exactly and what's fact and what's imagination. You sound like a very kind person and I would really enjoy talking to you if you ever get the chance.:)
Southern At Heart

Hi Oracle101,

I am new here. I am glad to have found this site. Thank you for all of your wonderful tips. I plan to apply them.

I've had various experiences and would like to understand if I have a gift that I should focus on. I genuinely wish to be of service. I have been on a spiritual path for years though (I'm 43), but feel I have to learn to be consistent and disciplined.

One thing has been there all of my life, but I sort of forgot about until recently when I started meditating again. Since I can remember, everything I look at seems to be alive with energy. I told my parents about this when I was about seven years old (said "I see spots") and I ended up in the hospital because they suspected I had diabetes. I didn't have diabetes (lab error) and they said they didn't know what it was. So, I told myself I could see energy/molecules that other people couldn't see. I never told anyone again except my husband. Everywhere I look, I just see what looks like millions of pixels that are alive with energy, moving.

Anne said that I see astral/ethereal energy. I see it all the time, day, night, well-lit or dimly-lit room, etc. I am not sure what this means though or how to work with it. I will begin asking my guides to show me more about this, if it is something I should work with.

I've also had "feeling" dreams that come true (only a couple of them). Although, they are cryptic and I've not known what to do with them in the past. Sometimes it is just a feeling, sometimes it is a word or two that leads me to something I need (e.g. Help with a health question).

I had a "visit" from my father after his death (feeling and auditory).

Sometimes I just know something about someone else, like what they're looking at or working on. There are certain people in my life... I just connect with them on that level. I am not able to do this on demand... It just happens.

I've always been very sensitive and have felt very different. I am 43 now, and don't want to waste any more time being confused about what to do with all of this. I feel like I need focus and discipline.

I also have a more specific question about a feeling dream and resulting situation, and I'd very much like to talk directly with you about that one. If you are able to email me, my address is spicegirl _ 0101 to hotmail dot com.

Thank you,
Kp

First off, I would just like to say thank you so much for posting this. I realized I was an empath a few months ago, and I have been developing my abilites since. It hasn't been easy, but I'm working on it.

I have also recently tried to get in touch with my spirit guides. I read your tips on how to "speak" with them, and it has helped me so much. I am currently waiting for a response, but I feel that they are with me.

One question though... You mentioned that scrabble is a good way to speak to your spirit guides... How is this so? How can I use scrabble to better communicate? Thank you so much in advance.

~Mystic~

I also have a psychic gift of predicting future events. Sometimes I feel guilty of not warning people if I dream something will happen to them. I am afraid. I dreamed of 911 6 months before it happened. I wanted to call someone but I did not know how to call the secret service and I was afraid they would arrest me. I dream of the exact detail of someone usually a friend of family member if they get sick or their funeral. These dreams almost always come true. But how do you tell someone something they do not want to hear. Its hard I know. So I usualy do not tell them.

So I have 20/15 vision with my glasses on and 20/20 with them off. Does that mean anything? I have been trying to get in touch with my guide and I think its working because 3 days ago right before I woke up I heard the words 2 days and lose keys. Well I thought it was about my girlfriends dad but it turns out 2 days after I hear that I lose my keys... Last night before I went to bed I was meditating asking for my guides to help me out show me a sign help me find my keys or turn up the radio... I lay in bed and look to my left and my keys were right there it was crazy... I torte apart my whole house looking for those keys including my bed and they were nowhere... What do you make of this situation? Is it progress? Because I'm new to this hole thing... I just recently started to take notice about what's goin on.

Oracle
Today I was just wandering around the internet looking for something cool and interesting to satisfy my boredom. I have always felt I have had some kind of Psychic ability but I have no idea what it is. When I read your story I felt the overwhelming need to contact you. Is there anyway we can do this apart from others view?

Oracle101
How do I control my abilities when I get angry... When I get Angry a few things happen. Like the power will go out or objects will move or break. Or even I cause people to be emotionally and physically sick. I don't do this on purpose it just happens. Help.
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Oracle 101,

Thanks for your tips on how to strengthen my Intuition ability. I have another question for you. I don't know if you can pick up or read my energy but recently I have been having goosebumps on my lower part of the body (both legs) almost all the time now. Even when I'm in my room with windows closed and airconditioner off. This happens especially when I think of my spirit guide or anything spiritual. As I'm in Australia, it is summer now not winter so I really don't think that I get goosebumps because of chilly weather or cold winds. It doesn't do me any harm but an explanation might be really helpful.

❤Jessica

Oracle 101,

I am new here and would like to ask a couple of questions.
Since I was young I have always dreamt alot. On 2 occasions they have some true about my twin sister being in trouble. Surely enough she ended up in hospital on both occasions. Now she never goes to work when I have these dreams.
This stopped for awhile until 2 months ago when I dreamt I was very sea sick, got pains in the chest and numbness in my arms and fingers. Then I just said to myself... Oh crap, I'm going to die! I woke up in the middle of the night almost in tears and almost asked my husband to drive me to hospital. The next day I was on edge the whole day. At 530 that afternoon I received a call to say that my dad just came back from fishing in rough water, felt sick, pains in the chest and died of a possible heart attack (we don't have the results yet)
I have felt horrible ever since this happened... Thinking I should have known... The dream was different from my other dreams and dad sent me a text a few hours earlier saying he was fishing in rough sea.
The same night of his death, I dreamt a lady (although I couldn't see her) took me up to see my dad. I walked up a long white hallway and a robotic arm scared me. I looked up and seen my dad. He looked very good. He said sorry for the past, saying he was only looking after me I made him promise he would still do so. He hugged me and I remember him smelling so good. All of a sudden the lady was pulling me away from him. I woke up feeling a lot better about his death.

I understand the first dream was probably a vision of what was going to happen. But do you have dreams where you visit departed loved ones?

Long mail... Sorry,
Kindest regards,
Lotsasmiley

Psychic abilities can increase later in life when your Guides feel you are ready.

Guides are not known for often showing themselves in physical form. It is more common for Angels to have that ability. They show themselves more to children. When we become adult age we will see them less because we are too preoccupied and distracted with the material world. They visited me when I was a child. Now I see them only in my mind with my third eye, but in my dreams they take physical shape.

The same applies to hearing them. It is not so much like a physical voice but is more like an inner voice or thought within your head. Whereas in your dreams their voice will seem more physical.

So to answer your question, yes you can see your Guides, and yes they can help you to increase and develop your gift.

(This is in response to belle's question)

If you feel spirits trying to contact you then write down the messages they give you. For example, when I hear a name being told to me in my head I used to assume it was my own imagination and I would brush it off as just being a daydream. But now I write down the name or message they give me and then I research the name or event. Most of the time I solve it and find out that the thought I received and had assumed was a daydream or my imagination was in fact really a spirit sending the message to me. So do not brush off your thoughts and daydreams. They could be visions and messages. Write them down and then research them as best as you can.

Do not feel frustrated when you cannot solve some. It is not possible to solve all messages and dreams, to help every spirit, nor to prevent all events you predicted. The spirits who contact you are limited in what messages they can get to you, but they do see all that you do to help them and they appreciate your efforts.

(in response to niktaya's question)

Oracle101
I can really feel you have a very intense psychic ability and understanding... I hope you don't mind me commenting but it is fascinating to me because I am just really beginning to open up to my gift. A memory I don't share with most is when I was 3 years old I fell down a flight of concrete stairs, I was out there by myself and as I went down I saw a circle of bright lights haha sounds like what they all say but really this is one of my very first memories as a child... I ended up on the bottom of the stairs not bruised hurt or upset-just comfused but comforted feeling and I really believe that this was my spirit guide. Do you ever see them? I would think this would be something they are not suppose to do, but my guide almost did it in a motherly nature to make me feel safe I believe.
I can feel when someone is psychic, but I still doubt my own ability's and start to think maybe its just all in my head- can you feel my psychic abilities? Do you have any word of advice for me?

Thank you for what you have posted, I have felt the negative spirits that you talk about - sometimes they are so bad that I stay awake all night and try to pretend that they aren't there... It really makes me feel like I have lost my mind. They mostly like to visit when they know I am in a negative mind set. This has really been the reason for avoiding my "psychic" gifts because they scare me. I do feel the positive spirits most of the time, but it seems like it only takes one negative experience to close me off. Ide like to help people in good ways, and I think it is so great you don't charge. I really have always felt that its not the route I would ever go with this gift, to charge people. These gifts were given for a reason, and I don't think it would bring positive experiences to get something for it- at least those are my feelings on it.

Oracle101,

I read your profile, though it doesn't say if you could influence the atmosphere or not. I was wondering if you knew anything about the mechanics of how this works.

With me I have some kind of sensory field where I feel disruptions in the atmosphere above me and at times can cause or influence rainfall.

I can also do this thing where I sit under a tree, absorb energy from the ground, and no longer need food - I've only read about monks discussing this topic, though any insight would be great.

Hello, I found what you wrote very informative and helpful. I have been very confused lately for about the past 2 years I have been having experiences that I don't know what to make of. I have had what feels like a presence when I go to bed at night. I will give you an example 2 nights ago I just layed down for bed and I was going through the day and thinking about if I got all my Christmas shopping done then I felt something pushing on me (which happens a lot) then it is just like this presence put thoughts in my head the other night was a persons name and 2 other names that to me sounded like maybe cities or places. I did a little searching on the internet. My question is I have this overwhelming feeling I am suppose to be doing something to help but I don't know what exactly it is. Could you give me a few pointers on what to do thanks.

How to develop Psychic abilities:

1. First understand what it is. Read up on it until you feel you have become an expert on it. (Click on my profile to read my other posts for more on this subject.)

2. Next learn about Guides and how to make contact with them because it is their job to help you develop your skill. (Read my other posts for more on this subject. If you cannot find this particular post ask me to re-post it for you.)

3. Develop your skill, as well as your communication with your Guides. (Read my other posts for more on this subject.)

4. Learn about Psychic Protection. (Read my other posts for more on this subject.)

How to use it:

1. Start by writing down your dreams, visions, or predictions.

2. Also write down a detailed list of your abilities and how they work for you.

3. Research each dream and vision afterwards and update them as they come true.

4. Do what you can to prevent those which you are able to. (Sometimes it is fate or destiny that some must happen regardless of what we do to try to stop them.)

How to increase it:

The best way to strength or increase psychic ability is to use it. The more you use it, the more it develops and you eventually will learn how it works best for you and how to control it.

1. Concentration and prayer helps. In other words if you want or need it then it will be there for you.

2. Practise with memory cards.

3. Try to predict the outcome of movies you are watching.

4. Get a lot of sleep and avoid distractions.

5. Avoid msg, processed foods, sugar, caffeine, and alcohol.

6. Meditate and pray in quiet areas where you feel it strongest, and at hours you feel it strongest. Then practise it there.

7. Read up on it more.

8. Sometimes your Guides do not feel needed or wanted, or are busy. If they know you are wanting them, they will return at your request.

9. Research crystals and gemstones. Certain ones can increase psychic ability. Find one which works best for you.

10. Hang out with other psychics. This increases it greatly.

Oracle101, Psychic and Medium for 43 years

Always happy to help others

For more advice on this subject and others click on my profile name to read my other posts

How and why to contact your Guides:

It is important to seek advice from your Guides. Unlike people, your Guides always have good intentions and their job is to protect you and guide you. When they visit you they will make you feel safe and comforted. It is like being visited by a good friend. They will never make you feel scared or afraid.

To confirm that you have Guides (and that they are who they say they are) ask them for signs then be on the lookout for those signs. I asked for specific detailed signs which are not easily found anywhere and they shocked me everytime by sending me those exact signs, so make your requests a bit challenging (but not impossible) and they will comply. Do not be scared. Think of your Guides as friends, Angels, etc. Your job is to develop and use your gift and their job is to show you how. Just make certain you only use it for good purposes. Also make certain they are Guides, not bad entities, by only thinking your thoughts to them rather than speaking your requests outloud, and first pray for your top level Guides to come guide you, and verbally outloud banish all bad entities from around you telling them they are not welcome.

Guides or spirits?

It is very important to confirm that they are good entities which you are meant to help and not bad entities trying to attack or manipulate you. They can see you and hear your spoken word but not usually hear your thoughts so the first thing to do is to pray for your guides to protect you and advise you on what to do. As for the entities/spirits you must speak outloud to them to ensure that they hear you and tell them that you only welcome good spirits and ask all negative or bad energies/entities/spirits to leave. This is also important to do when using lettered cards, tarot cards, scrabble, etc to communicate with your top level Guides for advice and guidance. Always confirm you are speaking to them and not to entities/spirits until you are ready to do so.

How to make first contact with Guides:

-First be relaxed and in a location where you feel most spiritual and protected.

-Next in your mind and outloud ask for all negative energies/entities to leave for they are not welcome. They need to be told this.

-Next pray innerly (not outloud). Ask to be protected from negative, bad, evil, or dark energies/entities/spirits.

-Once you feel at peace and protected, pray innerly to communicate with your Top Level Guides. Only those who guide you, care for you, protect you, and are of the white light.

-You will then hear some inner thoughts, which at first you might feel are only your own, but they will catch you off guard because you will know you yourself did not think that thought. Reply to it. Listen carefully. Ask it questions. Listen for answers.

-Now at this point you will wonder if you are crazy, and are imagining things, or making it up in your own mind. This is when you need to ask to be sent signs as an assurance that they do in fact exist. They do not mind doing this. They understand. Request a sign which is challenging and not so common so you will know for a fact that it is from them, but do not choose a sign that is impossible.

Be aware and watch for the signs.

Keep in mind that Guides do not always come forward until we know they exist, believe in them, and need them. Even then it might be against the rules for them to come forward. Others like to remain hidden and watch over us silently. Remember that Guides are on another level. They can make mistakes, be not so experienced as other ones, and might bend the rules and get in trouble for it. So be careful when making contact and making demands. They do have to answer to the highest power aka God.

Ways to communicate with your Guides:

-Tarot
-Scrabble
-Rune Stones
-Prayer
-Meditation
-Asking for and reading signs

To get your Guides to TALK to you in a more physical voice they need to develop this ability just as you need to develop the ability to HEAR them.

Until then they will use whatever other methods they can in which to communicate with you (Inner Thoughts, Tarot, Rune, Meditating, Radio, Signs, etc).

Remember not to pressure your Guides with being able to communicate better with you. They want this as much as you do and it is a two way street. You try more on your end, and they will try more on their end. Teamwork.

If you have any further questions do not hestitate to ask me. I am always happy to help others. Click on my profile name to read other helpful tips.

The best way to message me is to click on my name to read the stories I posted then post a comment on my story.

Oracle, Psychic and Medium for 43 years

I am really Glad you posted this. It actually made me happy to be a psychic. When I first started experiencing things I thought I was going insane. I started searching for answers but I didn't find any. Finally yesterday my mom called Lisa Williams. (A psychic who is my idle). Lisa Williams was hosting a radio show about psychic children and she confirmed I was a Gifted Psychic especially in Mediumship.
But Yes I love this that you have posted:D

Oracle101
I want to thank you for your help by giving important informations regarding about this topic. It really gave me much confidence and courage whenever I encounter scary images and voices not too long in the past. I feel like my ignorance is somehow filled with some knowledge to accept it not to bear it inside. I am a big fan. Can you help me by opening my third eye in a fully wide state so that I can see more apparitions clearly please. You know I am not that bad. It is not us whose are bad instead its the environment around us. Thank you and good day 😊

Do you think that you could help me strengthen/control my abilities and help me contact my spirit guides?

Thanks,

Winter_Lilly 😊