My Mother

My mom passed in 2009 from Pancreatic Cancer. Within 3 days she kept showing up as soon as I laid down on my bed. First I would hear a wind storm and I would look up and see her face in white outline. I was definitely awake. My mom also had abilities and she knew I would see her after death. She and I had a lot of unresolved issues and she was screaming at me. By the third day of her doing this I had to tell her to pass over because she was scaring me. It took a few weeks and I saw her again but in color. I knew she finally passed over. But for years I would have dreams that she had cancer and then she passed. I kept reliving her death over and over. I finally told her not to come back until she was nice. I have not seen her since.

Dear Jean
Sure, you meet your mon!
Just few important things: first you have to prey a lot for you Mon to be "healed", it funny to say in this way but is true, besides your mother don't have any more her body, her spiritual body (also material but different constitution) has the "scars" of her disease. Probably for some time she will need special care and in this situation, she is not available to help you in such condition! So be patient. After some sort of time she will be able to help you when you need but depend of the problem she will not be able and she will get frustrated, worried and distressed with this situation. Best thing to do is ask for you protector spirit he is the best one to help us at any time, since this is his "job".
So bother our beloveds with our daily problems will not help them since they have other important things to do for themselves besides "babysitting us". Please understand that we will be always important to them and they will be around us all the time since they will always love us.
When we are sleep the bonds of our spirit with our body relax and we can have 3 types of dreams, first is the physiological one, classical is he sheet curls up in our neck and we dream that we are being hanged... Means something from our environment influences our dream. Second is psychological, you have a mathematics final exam and you have studied for hours and you are very worried with, so you dream with the math exam, or the bill you have to pay and so one... The third and most important one is the spiritual dream that is actual a meeting with spirits good ones and bad ones (nightmares).
You can get more detials on The Spirits' Book both by Allan Kardec
Http://www.ssbaltimore.org/PDF/Spirits.pdf
Good study!

It's good not to cry too much about lost loved ones! Many people have seen dreams of them, telling them: 'honey, don't cry that much for me, you're ruining my peace!' strange but true! They are now in the hands of God our Father. If you want to help them, even if they're in hellish suffering because of their sins, you can pray and fast for them, and also offer your time and money to charities, the poor, the sick, the orphans... And do it in the name/memory of your beloved dead person. THIS HELPS THEM ALOT! God bless! Timfaraos [at] gmail.com

Your mother came to visit you and to let you know her sprit is alive and well on the other side! What a blessed gift!

Yeah I heard about these stories a few times I don't think I've experienced something like this before. I think I would if I got upset about a family relative then would of got a dream just like yours and a few other peoples. 😊 yeah they are watching over you there around you every day. They watch you to see what you get up2 but If you get upset about them then they will feel down kind of because they don't want to see you crying they want to see you living your life and being happy. One day when you will pass away you will see them in heaven and you will meet up again.

I can see here you posted this in 2006 but am just seeing it now as it popped up after my own posted story. I too had an experience commuicating in a dream with my mother after her death.Again, it was so vivid and her voice and it's cadence so clear and her mood not something I could conjure up myself. Like you I woke up in a start. I don't have nightmares. Something really did happen.
I did not know mine was a psychic experience until a year later when I saw a program about psychic experiences just recently. I didn't even know what a psychic experience was when I had the experience!

Unlike you nothing has happened since. I get goose bumps now knowing what it was. I think how like Mom it was for her to make every effort, in any way she could, to speak with me again. That was something she would do. Unlike you my experience was simply a presence, her saying she had been trying to communicate with me and her and my voice in conversation with some concept of a barrier between us. I wonder what the barrier was? I wonder why she did not tell me about where she was when I asked. Something pretty incredible must be going on for her hesitate as she did, get nervous, and not answer me.

Something really bizarre happened to both you and I. I am past middle aged, a happy average person and no kind of crackpot or supersticious in any way.

Great experience, very similar to my own. This was not a dream, and I know that although I was physically sleeping, I really did talk (through telepathy, no words were actually spoken) to my 3-year-old brother who passed away 20 years ago. I have also had evidence that he is "alive" and well while I was awake.