My Daughter's Encounter

My 10 year old had a very bad experience last night. She was awaken from her sleep about 2am from her sleep and got up and turned the bedroom light on then laid back down. Within a few minutes she was back to sleep. After sleeping for about 15 minutes she starting crying and shaking. Within a few minutes she started screaming " no no stop, leave me alone, mommy help me" then she woke up. She was still crying and shaking. When we asked her what was wrong she said she had seen a man dressed in all black with a black hat on and he had red eyes. They were in a dark room with a light blinking. The man walked toward her and as soon as he grabbed her arms the light went off. Then she felt someone else on each side of her and behind her and that's when she woke up. When she woke up she was still crying and shaking. She was terrified. She refused to go back to sleep until daylight. She has always talked to a female and male child and I often wonder if they are from her past life. She has had 2 illnesses that the doctors have said was terminal and has been healed of both of them. So I guess it's kind of like she is my gift. I always tell her she is special and in a special way. I really think she is going to be able to help many with her gift and abilities because hers are stronger than mine. I'm assuming the 3 others that she felt was her spirit guides. I was her age when I had my first spirit encounter but it wasn't evil or a demon. I never talk with her about her gift to see or talk to spirits or the past and future I always just listen and tell her it's a special gift and I also have it. What do I need to do to help my daughter? Also is it possible to 2 1/2 year old will also have this gift?