That is the title because I haven't been able to tune into any feeling or emotion whatsoever. Just about 4 - 5 years ago, I started to dream about seeing myself sleeping then just walking in a place that looks so familiar but everything there seemed out of place. This "realm" so to say is different from what is real - that much I had deduced. Weird enough, in this realm, I see no one talking - or living for that matter. It's just a place, quite dark (even if it broad daylight when I sleep) that looms and feels hopeless. I actually don't know how to explain it.
So far, with research, I've been able to find out that what I have been doing in my sleep is something like an out of body experience. But recently, even when I close my eyes, I feel as though I'm moving between two separate realms - this one and the other. That's when I begin to see all these other existing but non-living beings walking among us.
I'm 21 and at this age, I don't think imaginary friends are applicable. Honestly, this out of body experience thing is very draining. Sometimes at night, I don't want to sleep or even close my eyes for an hour because I know I'm going to see that other realm again. And I don't like what I see there. Even with my mentor, I find it hard to keep myself grounded because of how 'nice' the realm looks and feels.
I had an experience about 2 months ago where I wanted to see if I could do it consciously; and I succeeded. For some reason, a wind elemental took me from my body and brought me around saying "IT" was the spirit of the wind and that I was in tuned with "IT". I didn't believe it at first because I said, it could have been just my imagination and I was actually sleeping with my eyes open. But then, when I "got back" I felt quite drained but light. Weird.
Now for a few questions:
Is it possible to talk to the spirit of the elements?
Why would it say that I am in tune with that specific spirit? Why not the others?
How can I prevent the out of body experience when I sleep?
Is the spirit trying to get me?
Talking to the spirit of elements is possible. It's practically just another Spirit Guide just an elemtnal.
Some people are born with certain elemental attractions. It can be Zodiac related, Lunar related or just that's what element you have a closer bond to. So it's not unusal for an elemental to be intuned with you. Most people aren't aware of their natural element anyway.
To prevent OBE's that's more of a meditation excercise. You can try grounding yourself before bed. Burned some incense can help. I'm not sure which exactly. You can also have Amythest under your pillow as you fall asleep to help somewhat control your OBE's.
Spirit's like elementals won't be after you. There isn't much to worry about there. They are there to help is all. Now depending on what feeling you get from the spirit then it might not exactly be a "good" spirit. Just be cautious next time.