Empathy, Ghosts and Deja Vus

I've always known I was different. I used to see ghosts but not anymore. But I will always remember when I had my first encounter with a ghost. I was in kindergarden and I saw a woman standing at my bedroom door when I first woke up. She was wearing my mother's favorite pajamas but looked nothing like my mother.

The other thing I want help with is my empathy. I can't control it! I'm always annoyed when it's not my own feelings. And also when my friends get hurt, I'll be sleeping or sitting on the couch when I get an awful pain! If anybody has any ideas how to control my empathy, please comment. I'll try to get involved in the conversation!

Also, I get very intense deja vu. Sometimes I get it six times a day. Even more in new places.

I also see into my past life. I died at the age of six in a car accident with my grandfather. My family was abusive and we were poor.

I see most of this in dreams or suddenly remember something that has never happed ever before!

And sometimes I dream the future but only every once in a while. Sometimes I feel sick right before something bad happens. Either Something bad is going to happen soon or I'm really sick. (I'm never sick, though.)

I'm really only concerned about my empathy, though so please comment!