I just realized that I'm able to seduce guys without flirting with them. No, I already knew I could seduce them since I was young, but I told myself, it's not true. I'm not the type of girl who goes around talking to guys, I'm not really popular, I don't do anything that attracts guys. I'm not a genius. I'm not very active in sport. My face is normal. Just your average type of girl.
Just for your information, I don't do sexy poses, dances, or anything like that! I'm not a slut, I have very high discipline (I've never even held a guy's hand before! Except when shaking hands for greeting.)
It's kind of like, when I'm interested in a guy, even if the guy doesn't know about my existence, after a week or two, he will notice me. (I always hide my presence so that I wouldn't cause any problems)
After a few months later, the guy confessed to me.
Same goes to other guys that I've been interested in before. Sometimes, I unconsciously seduce guys that I'm not interested in. And worst case scenario. When my best friends (guys) confessed to me. It's like, more than 30 guys I know, confessed to me. When I asked them when they like me, they said they have no idea. It's like, I'm like a magnet pulling them. I didn't do that intentionally... Well, maybe only to the guys I was interested in. But the guys I'm interested in is not more than 3, so, what's the problem with the other guys.
When I'm trying to make a guy fall for me, it's like I am able to use a power to attract them. The power makes me feels like I'm giving out a vibe that's different than my usual aura. Sometimes, I unconsciously give out this vibe, and when I realized it, I have no idea how to turn it off. Not only my aura, but my gaze is different, too.
I did an experiment with a guy best friend and I told him to check what's different about me before and during the time I use my power. My best friend told me that my aura, every single movements, and the gaze of my eyes attracted him all of a sudden when I'm using the same aura to attract guys. May I know what is this called? How do you control it? I don't want to keep hurting people by rejecting them when it's my fault for causing them this way. I find it really easy to tell when a guy fall for me too.: (
[at] Awakening_In_Crimson, I fully agree with the "chord" visualization. I know it works, but I've only used it once because of the moral dillema you've mentioned.
I certainly DO NOT have the Power to seduce, at least not conciously. But I know for sure that I have a powerful aura, an aura of extremes. I can see it in people's eyes and how everyone seems to run away when I show up. People strongly prefer to avoid me when they can, and are visibly nervous when I speak directly to them.
But at the same time, people who give me the chance find that they can't stop thinking about me and eventually become rather obsessed with me. I have noticed that this is mainly women younger than me.
I agree that this is within the aura, and that fostering it will make it far easier for you to control it. Just please be careful for the sake of all guys out there. And thank you for actually expressing concern for their emotions, most girls I've met would simply use these stricken men for selfish gain. Thank you and good luck.