Developing Psychic Abilities

First, let me tell you what I have been through these last couple of months first I am 22 years old and been going through this for about 4 months. It first started when I woke up cause I had to pee and when I looked there was a shadow just looking at me and I looked at my boyfriend to see if he saw it but he was knocked out! I was very freaked out and then he said everything is alright just go back to sleep and I wanted to get up to go to the bathroom but I felt like something bad was going to happen. When he told me this he didn't say it it was almost like having a thought come in mind. I obeyed and went to sleep and he was showing me something and he told me that I wasn't going to remember but whatever I saw was great and happy. That's where it started and I told my friend and she said that he must be your guide. After that she told me that I am going to be "tested" which means that I will find a deeper meaning and meanwhile I felt like I was going crazy because I was hearing voices and seeing shadows and I also felt very alone and then I started seeing auras and my friend tells me that being able to read auras is a gift and I started researching it. I'm not fully developed in auras but I have been getting better and researching it. Also, my brain feels like it wants to see my past life and my friend tells me that it can be bad and it will alternate my way of life now. Lately, I have been trying to learn how to move things but my brain wants to learn premonition and my first premonition was seeing my boss cheat on his wife with a blond haired lady and I was right. My second premonition was somebody was about to die but I didn't know who. Then my friend calls me to tell me that her grandmother is in the hospital. I just went on here because I am trying to learn how to control my premonitions and become very sensitive so can someone please help me figure this out!