Seeing Unwanted Dead People

Hello everyone!

My name is Cley and I was born and raised in Brazil. I have been able to see the dead ever since I can remember - and specially in my dreams, where I usually see the near future.

I am already 30 years old, and the thing that has brought me more comfort is to deal with it as if it's a natural thing.

I have learned a lot of things in the phylosophy or religion called SPIRITISM which was coded over 100 years ago by a french professor and translator who adopted the pseudonym ALLAN KARDEK. I am sure you will be able to find some of his books in English.

I simply hated to be treated differently because I was able to see and hear things most people couldn't.

Well, if you want to keep in touch, please feel free t ask my email or msn.

Bye!
Cley

Well, despite the no doubt perfectly valid views of many of those who replied to this topic, I must disagree with the general tone of their input. It is irrelevant whether the spirits that you encountered are desperate to communicate or not, or even if they have some great, deep truth to impart upon you. At the end of the day, it's your life, not their's, and you have to set the boundaries of your relationship with the paranormal.

You are in control of your life, and your gift/curse, depending on how you look at it. But that said, you have nothing to gain from making yourself ill with rage every time something turns up, or sick with worry waiting for them to do so. My advice is to have a set statement that you make, forcefully and with the outward appearance of self confidence and self assurance, even if you are churning like a washing machine inside. Address them calmly and succinctly, and mean what you say.

Something like "I know you are here, but I am not going to talk to you. You are not welcome here. You will have to find someone else to help you. You are going to leave. Now."

It might be hard to stick to the script at first, or summon up the courage, but after a while it should become second nature, like a mechanical action of your subconscious. Then when, or if, you are ready to share yourself with the 'other side' at a later date, you can simply react differently when they appear. And yes, it's a method I've used in the past, though I prefer to face such things head on now.

I know that my particular take on all this isn't exactly orthodox, but I'm just trying to tell it how it is for those of us who don't necessarily trust the entities floating around out there, that's all.

Hey hope, I also have the same problem but there's a lot of people helping me so read the comments starting from the bottom and slowly progress to the top 😆
This should help
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I am pretty sure that this message is late... And I'm sure that no one will probably check it but it is worth a shot... This is in response to "afraid to sleep" up at the top. Look, I know exactly what your going through... I have been seeing thigs since I was in the 6th grade. Now I'm 21 and these things that I see come and go... I don't see them as often as I used to but let me tell you, I have seen them any which way you can imagine. I don't know why these things happen to people like us and I'm not sure that anyone can give you an answer. I myself have gone to look for answers and help and I have gotten every reponse from "its a chromosome inbalance - genetic problems" to "its a gift and god wants you to embrace it" I don't think there is any answers for any of us out there. I used to be real hesitant about telling people my stories... And only 4 people in my life know about this. This is my first time coming out and admitting that I too have the same problems... What do I do when I see these people? Well something wierd happens to me... I can't move my mouth at all as MUCH as I want to, I freeze, I don't blink for as long as they are in front of me, my body feels paralyzed and a few minutes later when I give it EVERYTHING I GOT I shut my eyes, and by the time I look up they are either walking away or disappeared. I don't know if I should go to anyone about this, like a shrink or anything... But in a sense as wierd as this sounds, I'm just grateful that I am not the only one. Is there anyone who can truly explain what were seeing and why? Please let me know. This is my first time looking for answers and ANYHTING would be a big help.

In response to the person above who sees people at night, I also have the same thing happening to me. I have been seeing people watching me almost every night for the past 5 years. They just watch me sleep. Sometimes their faces are so vivid that I could recognize them on the street somewhere. Other days I just see dark figures moving through my room. My boyfriend as woken up yelling at them several times now since he has been staying with me; something he had never done before. They have followed me from college, back to my home town, so its not like the place I live is haunted, just me. I am not usually scared of them, but they aren't very friendly either. They don't respond wen I talk to them, and I see them until I walk across my room to turn the light on. I also saw a huge angel that was glowing and hovering over me. I just sat up in my bed and watched her because she was so beautiful. I would like to know why they are following me, and what can I do to help them/ make them move on? I say my prayers each night, but they still watch me, and I become restless at night frequently... Anyone else have this problem/gift?

You know what I did is cry everyday and say you can't cope cause that is what I said and I've not seen nothing for months. I saw 7 spirits last year and heard about 7

Ok. They come to you most likely for help. The only way to make this stop is to help them. I'm sorry but you will have to talk to them. But, its the only way to make them go away. And, they may be trying to tell you something. So, listen to them, they could be trying to protect you.

They absolutley refuse to leave me alone! I need to talk to someone who can tell me what I'm going through please!

NILA-you will know what is real and what isn't once you start developing to communicate. The only way to develop is to attend a beginners spiritual workshop, they will teach you the essentials. Once you develop you cannot ask pacificaly for past loved ones to give you messages, they will come to you. When you develop or be given a reading by a clairvoyant, this is likely to happen. If you speak to your parents as normal,(they can hear every word you say) (they are most likely to be around you), in most cases you will get signs i.e a familiar scent assosciated will appear etc. I have developed and speak to my grandad and guide reguarly, I don't call upon them, but just talk as if they are next to me and I do hear them talk back. There is all hope my friend

I have had a few experiences where I thought someone was standing at the foot of my bed, but they didn't say anything so I thought it was a dream. I've even felt like someone was touching me, it seemed so real. I never see faces just the outline of a person. I don't know if it's real or just my imagination. I would love to communicate with my parents who are both passed but I don't know how. I do feel like I have a
guardian angel who watches over me and protects me. How do I communicate with someone who has crossed over. I'm not afraid, I just want to know how do I know what's real and what isn't.

animals see spirit all the time so they would not be bothered, spirit cannot harm you

ask your guide or angels (just ask in your mind, they can hear you) for a blanket of protection when you go to sleep. Its because your open (spiritually attuned) you attract spirit, the blanket will act like a protection and theyl leave you alone, I have had it all, now I sleep like a baby. Spirit is most active in the darkest hours, don't show fear because theyl bother you for your energy. If you feel comfortable oneday, have a chat, they have come to you for a reason but for now learn to ground and protect yourself. This will protect you from negative energy and spirit bothering you..."Grounding"-imagine roots growing out your feet into the earth,"protecting"-imagine a bubble of white light around you. Hope this has helped you. You have got to be in charge

Think how shocked and surprised that Spirit is who appeared to tell you they are alive, and you screamed at them and no doubt sent them scurrying.
Sometimes these spirits who appear to you may be a realtives or the relative of a friend and they are trying to communicate and if you accept messages from them its much like what happens to some of the Psychics we see on television who deliver messages from the dead.
For those who are just beginning to be aware of a Psychic Gift it can be frightening and so I suggest if you want to understand better what is happening to you so you know if you want to channel for Spirit or not, you might want to seek out a Spiritualist Church in your locality and learn from some of the teachers what this is all about so you can face it in a calmer way and not be so afraid of the Dead because one day that is where we will all be, and we no doubt will want to find a channell who will acknowledge that we are indeed alive.
When a Spirit leaves the body in death, whether they die peacefully in their sleep or go from less kind means their Spirit with all its Intelligence and Memories good and bad go with them to the Spirit World.
As you can imagine some people left unfinished business here on earth and some were great minds who want to work to further educate the World on subjects they worked with when they were here on Earth.