My Dreams Predict My Future

I've been having dreams ever since I can remember and it takes a few years or sometimes a few months and then they come true. Not all of my dreams come true, but the ones that I have at least 3 times in my life do. I don't understand why and recently I had a dream that I would be murdered by an intruder in my home in the daytime and my son told me last night that he is scared someone will break into our home. It terrifies me and I don't know what to do.

I have had dreams about this house before, not anything elaborate, just short segments of moments in time such as me walking over a stick in the yard or driving or picking up a certain item. My dreams always revolve around me and my future, no one else's.

I've had other dreams come true, about insignificant things like making a sandwich or something and I always get bouts of deja vu.

I want to know if I can predict my future and if I can I want to know how to control it because like I said before I have some dreams that have not come true yet such as 2 girls standing on the stairs telling me their dad said to hurry up because we were going to be late. I thought that this would come to be sometime in the future with my twins; however, one passed away and I have since had my tubes tied. Also the twins were born with Rett Syndrome and can't walk. I have also had dreams about me walking down the street at my grandmother's house under a tree and fire balls falling from the sky.

I don't know what any of this means but I would love some true assistance on this.

On a side note, I have also had paranormal experiences. I have not seen any ghosts/spirits/religious figures, etc. Since I was in my teens but I think that I can still feel the presence.

I have seen the Virgin Mary as a child as she helped me to fight a paralyzing demon. I have seen a witch at our old house and currently I can just feel the presence of beings.

Any help would be greatly appreciated on helping me understand and control what is going on, because for years I have been terrified and tried really hard to block it all out.