What Am I And How Can I Increase My Abilities?

So since as far back as I can remember I have been dreaming of the future, having dreams of people that have been dead, like for example about a year after my grandmother passed I had a very vivid dream that I still remember to this day of my Grandmother coming to me in a time of what seemed to be a world crisis and warning me about something. I remember distinctly trying to ask her how she was sitting there talking to me when she was dead and she kept telling me that she doesn't have time to explain and that there was something very important that she needed to tell me and that I was in no way to let my mom know I saw her or when she tells me. I remember everything in detail about this dream to a T but when I woke I couldn't remember what she had told me. That whole section of the dream is blocked out of my memory. This was 15 years ago and still to this day I remember everything about that dream like it happened last night other than what she was warning me about. I pretty much grew up in my grandmothers house and when she passed my mother and I stayed there for several years. I had always experienced strange things in her house, like things touching me in the middle of the night that I couldn't see. Things talking to me but I couldn't understand them (that actually followed me everywhere not just in the house) visions of these creatures that when I was very young called black soles that would try and pull me under the water when I would swim in the pool, the constant presence of beings or something non human. This was not the only place I felt this however it was always the strongest feelings when I felt things in that house. I experienced a lot of things there. I once felt like something was in the bathroom with me and it happened to be the day we were moving out, and I asked it out loud "If you are really here move something!" and it did, it moved a bag of skittles I had on the counter. Everything I felt in this house was not friendly, I had always been scared of it, it wasn't good energy and I didn't have good dreams. Since I moved out of the house I have had re-occurring dreams of the house calling me, there is never any other sounds other than the whisper of my name and each time I would blink and I would get a little closer to the front door. The end of the dream is me about to see what's on the other side of the door and I wake up. It's always really dark in the house and dawn outside. The other dreams are of me inside the house yelling at whatever evil presence is in it to tell me what it wants with me.

Other things have happened to me as well though, most of what I feel scares me and I don't know if that means it is evil or if I just don't know what is happening and am scared of the unknown. I can't hear the voices anymore but I can still remember exactly what they sound like and still can't understand what they were trying to tell me. Everything else still happens though. I can feel peoples energy almost as if I am reading their minds sometimes. I get very strong feelings that I don't know how to read and then I hear or I will see something that I cannot explain. A physic that I once worked with pulled me in the back room and told me that I was a very rare being and that I did not know what my possibilities were. She also told me that there was a man an evil man that attached himself to me and had been with me for years and what made me believe her was when she went into telling me a few things that I had not told anyone before in my life. She told me that my Grandmother follows my mother around, that she is with my mom every time she saw her.

I have always had a strong feeling that there is something out there and I am supposed to know what it is and that I have just forgotten. I will often be driving late at night and the darkness almost talks to me. That freaks me out a little too but it also excites me a little if anyone can understand how that feels.

I need help from someone that knows a little about what I am experiencing, there is much more that I experience but I would be here all day if I tried to explain it all. I really want to know how to get back in contact with my grandmother and ask her why I cannot remember the only part in my dream where she warns me about something. I had a really frighting experience that happened 3 times by the same thing that I really want to know what it was and why it was there. It looked like a man however it was a Blue Grey color and kind of transparent looking but I couldn't see through it really, it came to be all 3 times when I was in bed and about to fall asleep and hovered over me. It was not something good and when its there I have no voice and when I touch it my body feels like I'm touching an electric fence... What the heck was it and what did it want from me. I don't ever want to see it again, it actually moved me to the end of my bed the last time I saw it. I know this is a long story but it is 100% true and I am hoping that someone can help me figure out what is happening here. The voices are now seeming to be after my son and my husband can now hear them as well... Please help Thanks