Can I Ask If This Is Empathy?

By moonbeauty
(1 stories) (3 posts) (the author is a young adult)
Date: 2010-05-24
Country: United Kingdom
Category: Telepathy / Empath

This is now the 3rd time it's happened to me and it's never direct to the person but not far from it. Last Saturday, I had just got back home with my Fiance and I was really tired from doing the garden all day so I said to him, Right I'm having a nap and when I woke up about 2 hours later.

I thought I'd just sit in my bed smoking before I pinched my pc off his best friend, but then the feeling in my heart started beating (it doesn't feel like a heart beating) and then a few images came through into my mind and the fact that I wanted to cry also.

I said to my Fiance, I think his mums in very bad trouble and she's either upset or crying... He didn't bother calling her but I hoped I was just being sleepy...

Only a few days later, I and my Fiance went around visiting his mum and new boyfriend so we popped down the pub to get a drink.

So I asked her if she was upset or anything, and the look in her face completely changed and she explained where her ex husband came round banging on the door and she wouldn't let him in and my finances sister was terrified.

When I saw the images in my mind, there was one about a mat by the door, there was something like blood or evidence on it that I felt but I couldn't see.

After my Fiance had popped for another drink, his mum said, while she was cleaning the other day, she lifted up the mat, and there was a big stain of dried blood on there.

I'm unsure whether this is empathy, but it's also happened a bit like this before with someone else. The intense feelings worried me and I reckon as what I saw with my eyes wide open, if she had let him in that door, she would have been dead as that was the image I had come through.

If I could try and get an under-standing of this, it would be much appreciated as I'm almost 20 with a young mind.

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moonbeauty (1 stories) (3 posts)

15 years ago (2010-05-26)

Thanks all for helping me out on this, This is the second time I've had this now. But as before I only felt and a name popped into my head but this time, I felt, I had images and I knew the name of the person.

It turns out it's more Clair-sentience that I possibly have so I will try to develop more.

SmokeTooAsh (8 stories) (41 posts)

15 years ago (2010-05-26)

Niboreel,thanks logging can really help a person out. Becuase in moon beauty instance if this only happens when it's someone who is close to you, then it's definately not e mpathy, but moon beauty that kind of ability that you do have could be used for a lot of good if you could use that ability for people you don't know when you choose. Like a the psychic detectives who look at crime scene photos and can help find clues, you may not want that but if you do you could grow your ability and really help people. When your empathic it's hard to tell people how you know things because it's literally like it is you experiencing it and not comming from an outside source.
I like to use this example to know if your empathic: Of coarse you have to be 21 or go to a party where people are drinking but if you walk into a bar and after a while you start feeling just as drunk as everyone else, or dizzy, or slurring you words, and you didn't drink alcohol or get drugged you probably have some form of empathy 😆...Then you'll know. It is controllable with time though

niboreel (8 posts)

15 years ago (2010-05-25)

SmokeTo Ash: Great advice on the "logging" as this will show a pattern and show this person over a period of time what's happening.

SmokeTooAsh (8 stories) (41 posts)

15 years ago (2010-05-25)

I would have to agree with the overall consensus here. MoonBeauty I think this is not empathy or an empathic ability more like a type of clairvoyance, Empaths (like myself) are constantly bombarded by the emotions of other all of the time, it takes a lot of effort to control empathy and be capable of realizing the difference between emotions of yourself and that of others. But I wouldn't be too sad about it not being empathic ability because it's a very hard life to live. I almost equate your experience to a mother that knows her child is about to be kidnapped runs outside just while her child is talking to a stranger on their sidewalk...It's happened to me and my mom before... And she does not at all believe in psychic abilities but she knows that happened and doesn't know why. If you want start logging your experiences if you get them and see where it takes you good luck.

ravenv5 (1 stories) (63 posts)

15 years ago (2010-05-25)

When did you experience this? This time only? If it is now then it might not be Empathy at all.

Being an Empath is like an everyday torture if you can't manage it and able to shield yourself.

You can feel everybody accidentally or not this include animals. I am an Empath so I know how it is. Try to watch something. Even in porn you can sense if the girl likes it or not if your an Empath. Empaths can't stand to watch cruelties if you are.

It might be another gift. Try to observe yourself first.

niboreel (8 posts)

15 years ago (2010-05-24)

From what I understand this is "clairvoyance"

There are several types of clairvoyance, varying according to the mental and physical make-up of the person. The term Clairvoyance means "Clear Seeing or Soul Seeing" - if you're getting images in your head like this I would tend to lean towards this term versus empathy. Although empathy is likely from what you're describing.

yellow_rose13 (5 posts)

15 years ago (2010-05-24)

Moon beauty, it sounds to me like you are experiencing psychic impressions. It's nothing to be afraid of but I've been there! It can be very intense at first! I would strongly recommend reading up on how to control and understand your abilities, you won't be sorry you did. I strongly recommend any book by Sonia Choquette. She is a great author and a psychic herself. She will give you such a feeling of comfort and protection as well. My favorite (and the first of her books that I read) was "Ask Your Guides" but "The Psychic Pathway" is also a good place to start:)

If that interests you at all, I would then try some of Debra Katz's books. She is also incredible.

Lyro (468 posts)

15 years ago (2010-05-24)

Empathy is more feeling how someone feels, so maybe with the feelings of fright, and being scared. Also you can have physical empathy by feeling physical pains, or something from someone. This seems like something different, not Empathy.

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