When I was 17 I started being able to see pain in there eyes of males that are close or have a connection to me. I am now 18 and my gift still confuses me. I want to know how to strengthen it. It is already pretty strong because I was able to expose a friend of mine's true emotions without knowing much about him and his past pain. But I want to be able to understand it more like why I have it and how it'll help me with the person I see through.
I was wondering if it is possible for a gift to transform into one you're more comfortable with? When I was 13 I could feel people close to me's emotional and physical pain I use to hate it because I didn't know how to help them. All I could do was tell them I know what they are feeling but there was no way for me to take that pain away, or if there was a way, I did not know of it.
Then that gift disappeared when I was about 15. Now I see it instead of feeling it, but only in males. I'm not sure why I can't see what I see in males also in females, I was wondering if it was because females are more emotional than males which makes it harder to pick up on because our emotions are always changing?. I would really love for someone to help me find the answers I'm looking for, Or just to give me advice on what to do. Thank you =]