Psychic Or Spiritual?

I am totally new here and I want to know if what I have experienced is a psychic ability or more spiritual or maybe a bit of both. Anyway, it started years ago when sudden random thoughts would come into my head and hours later I would hear that the exact thing I thought had happened, this has happened to me a few times since.

Another time I was walking along the street and suddenly an image of broken glass flashed before me. That night, whilst driving home, a stone (I assume) hit my windscreen and it completely shattered. It freaked me out I have to say. This is all fair and well I hear you say and I'm sure this kind of thing happens a lot, however it is what I am about to say next which has left me utterly confused. A few months ago I was visiting family for the 30th Anniversary of my Aunt's death (I am 33) and that night while we were all sitting in her daughter's flat having a few drinks and a laugh a feeling of anger suddenly came over me completely out of the blue and I felt tingles all over my body, I don't know how but I just new that it was my Aunt's spirit and the anger was vented towards my Uncle (her brother) because she was angry at the way he was behaving, I felt her there for a while and then I felt her leave. I was quite upset as I didn't know what was happening.

Then, just the other night, I was with my cousin (from the other side of my family) and I was telling her about what had happened, her mum and my (dead) Aunt were friends and I started talking to my cousin about her and suddenly the tingles started and I felt her again. I had had a few drinks and I don't know if this means I am more "open" to her or if I am actually going nuts. I also don't understand why she is coming now after all these years and why she is coming to me.

Do I have a gift and if so what is it? Can I develop on it? I have always been fascinated by psychics.

Thanks for reading, sorry if it is a confusing read.

Julie