About 9 months ago I had a regular day and after work I went home and had a nice evening. Around 11 pm I went to bed. While I was sleeping I had a dream about being in my parent's home with my sister and her boyfriend and my mom. In this dream my sister tells us that she and her boyfriend are going to get married. I became very upset with her and told her this was ridiculous and that she was too young to get married and that the only reason you would really need to get married is if you were ready to start a family and that she was too young to get pregnant and have kids. I was very upset with her and I didn't take this news well. I stormed out of the living room after this conversation.
Then suddenly I'm standing in the walk way between the kitchen and the front door of my parents house and my sister and her boyfriend and my mom are all standing there talking. It was like I wasn't there. My mom was disappointed about this news of my sister getting married and starting a family but she was trying to be supportive because of how angry she and her boyfriend were from my response. Then I woke up. I laid in bed thinking about this dream and feeling as if it was very bizarre because I hadn't been thinking or talking about my sister or her boyfriend and this dream seemed to just come out of no where. It felt different then a dream to me.
I went to work that morning and discussed it with my co-workers and telling them how weird this dream was because it seemed to just come from nowhere for no reason. I then e-mailed my mom and told her about my dream and how crazy it felt because it seemed to so different from a regular dream. My mom then called me and told me how spooky my e-mail was because my sister and her boyfriend had sat my parents down last night to tell them that they are having a baby and that they are going to keep it and start a family and get married. Apparently, my Dad didn't take it well and was angry and shared his disappointment and anger and feelings with them before storming out of the room and that she and my sister and her boyfriend had stood in that very position between the kitchen and the front door discussing this and my mom was trying to smooth it over with my sister and boyfriend and telling them to excuse his response but that it's just very surprising news and that my Dad will come around and that he just needs time to process all of this. She said she was hurt by this news and disappointed in my sister but that she just wanted to keep the peace.
When she told me this I started looking online to see if I could find other people who have had similar experiences. It's like the first part of my dream was from my dad's perspective but then the last half of standing in the hallway watching my mom and sister and her boyfriend discuss the situation was like I was there but they didn't see me or know I was there. I have processed this and analyzed it over and over and over again and I just don't know how I could have all of this information when I live 3,000 miles away from my family. Also, I went to bed at 11 pm that night and my mom said that all of this happened around 8:30 pm their time which would be 11:30 pm my time. It's like I was there and watching it all happen even though that's impossible being I live so far away. What is even more weird is that on April Fools Day I had this thought to call my mom and tell her that I was pregnant and having twins. I thought it would be a good April Fools joke but then decided to not do that because I thought she may actually get excited at the news and then would be let down when I told her that it was just a joke. I didn't play the April Fools joke on her but I did think about it all day long. The next day my mom called me and told me that my sister and her boyfriend had gone in for their first ultrasound earlier in the day and that they found out that they are having twins. I couldn't believe it. I told her about how the day before I had contemplated calling her to tell her that I was pregnant and having twins but then decided not to do that because I thought she would be excited about it and that if that was the case then the joke wouldn't be funny. It would only be funny if she was angry or shocked not excited and wanting to celebrate.
I don't know what all of this means or why these two incidents happened that were so closely tied to my sister and my family. I flew up to my families home for my sisters baby shower a few months later and while there she had her baby shower, got engaged and delivered her twins. The babies weren't due for 2 more months and I had been struggling with my not being able to be there for my sisters labor and delivery and so for this to all happen in my first day back was just very weird to me. The chances of my being there for their delivery were like 1 in a million.
I've also had other things happen where I've had strange thoughts or concerns and then they happen. For awhile there I was afraid when I would get a scary thought because I was afraid it would come true.
My son also sees his dead Uncle and told me how he died and his name and his Uncle died before he was even born. It was his biological fathers brother and I had never met him and his dad hasn't seen him since he was a year old so there was no way for him to know about this Uncle. Sometimes we'll go places and he'll start talking about a person who has died and he'll tell me where they lived and worked and etc. It's very weird. When I ask him how he knows this he says he just does. He's only 6 years old.
I guess I'm just wondering if someone can tell me what I experienced with my sister and what my son is going through and he can know this stuff. Any advice or explanation would be much appreciated. Sometimes I wonder if it's just a coincidence that I know things before they happen and that my dream and experiences with my sister are just random coincidences too. I'm not particularly close to my sister because there is quite a large age difference between us but since my sister that I was very close to was murdered, I have tried to build a strong relationship with my younger sister since we only have each other now since my sister passed away. I mean, we have other siblings and family and our parents but as far as sisters are concerned, losing our sister the way we did made us want to be closer I guess is what I'm trying to say.
Hopefully someone can help me understand what's happening with me and my son. I don't think I'm psychic or anything. I just don't know what this is. I don't seem to have any control over it either.
Thank you for reading my story and I hope to get some advice or explanations from those who have time to respond to this posting.
Thank you.