Premonition And Shadowy Figure

For the past couple of weeks I have been having a premonition of my husband's death. He is still very much alive. It's visions of him dying (usually of a heart attack but also in a car accident or an accident at work). And when I say vision, it's more of a daydream, which sounds bad because obviously I don't WANT him to die.

I also asked him a few days ago, seemingly out of the blue, what he would want done if he died.

In the past 5-7 days, I have had this horrible gut feeling of "something is wrong". It makes it hard to breathe, eat, and sleep at times. It feels like an anxiety attack, when I've never had any kind of anxiety in the past. I am 100% sure it has to do with him.

I dream every single night, and I can control my dreams. I know I'm dreaming and I can change the course of my dream very easily. Sometimes, it makes no sense (the dream) and other times, it makes perfect sense. I've experienced deja vu quite a few times. I knew with certainty both times I was pregnant what gender I was having. The reason I added this is to help identify my potential psychic link.

For almost the same amount of time as my own premonition, my son has been telling me his stomach hurts. He says it feels like he's feeling guilty of something, but he didn't do anything. That's a 12 year old describing his gut feeling. It sounds like dread or foreboding to me.

On Sunday night (4 days ago), he said he saw a shadowy figure watching him in the back yard, then walk past the door in the front yard, then disappear.

Does anyone have any insight or validation to what my son and I are feeling?