Was It Real?

Am I crazy or is it real? Time to time people would ask my opinion on something and almost always what I related back to them came true. 8 years ago I opened myself up believing that I may have a gift after the woman I was in a relationship with at the time was very much into spiritualism. At first I did not think much of this until I started seeing things in the home that I shared with her; the only way to describe what I saw was energy in the form of. If you where looking down a road on a hot day and saw the heat therms rising from the road. Then that is what I saw the difference being is that the waves had form and shape to them sometimes in the shape of a person other times in the shape of an animal usually a dog. Then I started having a dream it was the same dream over and over again. In the dream I was a puzzle master all I did was solve puzzles, my partner at the time was always there and I would not leave the dream until she knew how to solve puzzles. Always the same one, it was a puzzle of interlocking bricks all made of mercury and this went on for weeks. Shortly after my partner started having problems with asthma, it got so bad that after many visits to the a&e that I had to call the paramedics while waiting for them her heart stopped and I had to resuscitate her. After she came home and I asked if she remembered anything from her experience. She went on to tell me that she was falling down a well like structure and the walls where closing in on her at the bottom there was a puzzle full of bricks and she knew that if she did not complete it that she would not be able to get back, on hearing this I finished the rest of what she could recall off for her describing the bricks and the form that they took. Obviously we where blown away with this experience. We moved away from there shortly after but the people who moved in after us where related to me and I told them of what I had saw in the house and not to be afraid if anything unexplained ever happened. So why after all this time am I writing this years after splitting up from the person I was with at the time and now being happily married to my wife for over 3 years and totally shutting myself down from any sort of feelings? One of the people who moved into the house after me went to a psychic night in a pub near to her home there she was told of the energies that are present in her home. After being told this I have spoken to her and she has related many of the things that I told them about happening to them in there home. What do yourselves think was it real what happened with me or is there some other explanation? Many Thanks Drew.