Spiders

I was just wondering if you could maybe give me some answers or tips on this?

I have lived in the country side for all my life so there are lots and lots of spiders. Ever since I can remember I have been terrified of them and haven't been able to go near them at all. The strange thing is though if I see one in my path an I can't get out of the room because I am too scared I look at it and say in my head could you please move to the left or right or up or down and the spider does it, it's happened to the last 3 spiders I have seen so I don't really know if its a coincidence or something else?

The first time was when;

I was in my room and there was a spider on my floor an I said to it in my head could you ease move up on to the wall so my dad can take you outside? And it did

The 2nd time I was fast asleep in my bed and I suddenly woke up and thought something was staring at me, I turned on my bed side lamp and beside my bed there is my main light switch and there was a really big spider just staring at me, I looked at it and motioned with my eyes could you please move away from my door/light switch so I can go out and somehow get you back outside please? An it did it moved right across to the other end of my room

The 3rd time;

Was just there I got out of the shower and there was a spider above the window and I asked it in my head if it could move to your left so I can open up the window please? An it did,

So I don't know if this has happened to a lot of people or it's not really common but yeah any help would be brilliant thank you!:)